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Stages the Support Person<br />

May Experience<br />

3. Anger- I may make some effort to help (as I<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> help). When that doesn’t work to<br />

eradicate the problem, I become frustrated <strong>and</strong><br />

angry.<br />

4. Marital Discord- I have many conflicts in my<br />

feelings resulting in hostility <strong>and</strong> arguments.<br />

5. Withdrawal- I will seek to pull away as a<br />

defense, both physically <strong>and</strong> emotionally.<br />

Our goal is to develop the<br />

6 th step<br />

6. Collaboration- It’s our problem, we can tackle<br />

this together. As a team, we can do far more than as<br />

individuals. Therapeutic goals move much faster <strong>and</strong><br />

with much better outcomes.<br />

17<br />

18<br />

Balance is the Key to Support<br />

Resolving the Conflict Means<br />

Finding the Balance<br />

Acceptance<br />

The answer<br />

is in the<br />

balance<br />

Benevolent<br />

Dem<strong>and</strong>s for<br />

Change<br />

19<br />

Acceptance<br />

Balance<br />

Resolves the conflict for the supporter<br />

Is what the Sufferer needs<br />

Benevolent<br />

Dem<strong>and</strong>s for<br />

Change<br />

20<br />

SUNDAY<br />

-210-<br />

5

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