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Introductions<br />

introductions<br />

Your guests are in the house; their coat is away they have a cocktail in hand. Do not abandon them now! If you need to answer the<br />

door, check on the oven, or finish one more detail don’t just walk away. Make an introduction or walk them to another couple. Start the<br />

conversation then excuse yourself.<br />

The proper way to introduce!<br />

This is always tricky so this is the rule I follow when making introductions!<br />

• A man should be introduced to a woman – for example!<br />

- Sarah I would like you to meet Mike<br />

• A younger person should be introduced to an older person - for example!<br />

- Mr. Jones I would like you to meet my nephew Samuel<br />

• Introduce family members to friends – for example!<br />

- Joe this is my brother Bobby<br />

• When a child is introduced to an adult – for example!<br />

- Use either first and last name or Mr. Mrs. Dr., etc to the child.<br />

OMG I forgot their name!<br />

This happens all the time. My husband and I are the worse when it comes to names! We now write it down and say is over and over again!<br />

Here are some tips we learned along the way...<br />

• If you are introduced to someone for the first time and didn’t hear him or her – do not be afraid to ask again (especially if you are in a<br />

loud room). Then repeat their name and let them know it is very nice to meet them.<br />

• It is OK to ask for the pronunciation then say – Wow that is an interesting name (with a big smile).<br />

• Repeat – Repeat – Repeat the name at least three times in the same conversation. Maybe introduce them to others as well to really<br />

embrace their name.<br />

• Think of someone famous they may remind you of then you will not forget!!<br />

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www.CindysTable.com<br />

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