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Two life Paths 105<br />
successful.” And they completely ignore the present,<br />
which is all we really have. It’s only the decisions<br />
that you make in the moment that are <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong><br />
decisions.<br />
A friend of mine says that people make two lists about their spouses and<br />
carry these lists around in their heads. <strong>The</strong> long list is a list of “what’s wrong,”<br />
and they consult that list every day. <strong>The</strong> short list is a list of “what’s right.” That’s<br />
the list they read for the eulogy.<br />
People on the success curve don’t wait until the funeral. <strong>The</strong>y burn the long<br />
list and spend every day reading from the short list. <strong>The</strong>y make themselves experts<br />
in “what’s right,” and let go of “what’s wrong.” <strong>The</strong>y never hold a grudge—not<br />
because it’s morally wrong (although they may agree with that reason, too), but<br />
because it gets in the way. It slows them down. <strong>The</strong>y’re too busy moving toward<br />
the future to be staring into the rearview mirror.<br />
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<strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong> Life Paths<br />
One of the quickest and most direct routes to getting yourself up and onto the<br />
success curve is to get out of the past. Review the past, 5% but only SUCCESS for the purpose of<br />
making a EASY better plan. TO Review DO it, understand and take Progressive responsibility realization for the of errors<br />
a worthy idea<br />
you’ve made,<br />
Simple<br />
and<br />
disciplines<br />
use it<br />
made<br />
as a tool to do differently in the future. And don’t spend a<br />
consistently over time<br />
great deal time doing even that!—the future is a far better tool than the past.<br />
<strong>The</strong> future is your most powerful tool and your best friend. Devote some<br />
serious, focused Responsibility/Discipline<br />
time and effort into designing a crystal-clear picture of where<br />
Value Driven<br />
you’re going. In the second part of this book, we’ll take a look at specific ways<br />
to help you do exactly that. For now, I’ll just say this: when you do have a clear<br />
picture of the future and consciously put time every day into letting yourself<br />
What’s uncomfortable early becomes comfortable later<br />
PHILOSOPHY • ATTITUDE – ACTIONS – RESULTS – LIFESTYLE<br />
FINANCES<br />
HEALTH<br />
BUSINESS<br />
What’s comfortable early becomes uncomfortable<br />
PERSONAL<br />
DEVELOPMENT<br />
Blame/Neglect<br />
RELATIO