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Two life Paths 105<br />

successful.” And they completely ignore the present,<br />

which is all we really have. It’s only the decisions<br />

that you make in the moment that are <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong><br />

decisions.<br />

A friend of mine says that people make two lists about their spouses and<br />

carry these lists around in their heads. <strong>The</strong> long list is a list of “what’s wrong,”<br />

and they consult that list every day. <strong>The</strong> short list is a list of “what’s right.” That’s<br />

the list they read for the eulogy.<br />

People on the success curve don’t wait until the funeral. <strong>The</strong>y burn the long<br />

list and spend every day reading from the short list. <strong>The</strong>y make themselves experts<br />

in “what’s right,” and let go of “what’s wrong.” <strong>The</strong>y never hold a grudge—not<br />

because it’s morally wrong (although they may agree with that reason, too), but<br />

because it gets in the way. It slows them down. <strong>The</strong>y’re too busy moving toward<br />

the future to be staring into the rearview mirror.<br />

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Future<br />

Past<br />

TIME<br />

old<br />

p.72<br />

<strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong> Life Paths<br />

One of the quickest and most direct routes to getting yourself up and onto the<br />

success curve is to get out of the past. Review the past, 5% but only SUCCESS for the purpose of<br />

making a EASY better plan. TO Review DO it, understand and take Progressive responsibility realization for the of errors<br />

a worthy idea<br />

you’ve made,<br />

Simple<br />

and<br />

disciplines<br />

use it<br />

made<br />

as a tool to do differently in the future. And don’t spend a<br />

consistently over time<br />

great deal time doing even that!—the future is a far better tool than the past.<br />

<strong>The</strong> future is your most powerful tool and your best friend. Devote some<br />

serious, focused Responsibility/Discipline<br />

time and effort into designing a crystal-clear picture of where<br />

Value Driven<br />

you’re going. In the second part of this book, we’ll take a look at specific ways<br />

to help you do exactly that. For now, I’ll just say this: when you do have a clear<br />

picture of the future and consciously put time every day into letting yourself<br />

What’s uncomfortable early becomes comfortable later<br />

PHILOSOPHY • ATTITUDE – ACTIONS – RESULTS – LIFESTYLE<br />

FINANCES<br />

HEALTH<br />

BUSINESS<br />

What’s comfortable early becomes uncomfortable<br />

PERSONAL<br />

DEVELOPMENT<br />

Blame/Neglect<br />

RELATIO

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