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is Time on Your Side? 53<br />
have heart. Once you are aware of and understand how to use the <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong>,<br />
you will naturally have both—purpose and the strength of heart to stay on<br />
that purpose.<br />
<strong>The</strong> important point is to start on the path and to<br />
remember that no matter what has gone on before,<br />
you can begin fresh and new and at any time you can<br />
choose to start with a clean slate.<br />
How long will it take? How long before you will actually see and feel (and<br />
smell and touch and be able to spend and enjoy and appreciate) the results? How<br />
long before you will have the experience of the success you’re seeking?<br />
Obviously, it’s impossible for either of us to say exactly how long. But the<br />
truth is, in three to five years, you can put virtually anything in your life onto<br />
the right track. Think of what you were doing three years ago: it seems like<br />
yesterday, doesn’t it? Well, three years from now, the things you’re doing right<br />
now will seem like only yesterday, too. Yet this brief little period of time can<br />
change your life.<br />
How long will it take? Chances are it will take longer than you want it to ...<br />
and when the time arrives, you’ll be astonished at how quick it seemed.<br />
Patience is not an issue for the water hyacinth. It simply goes about its<br />
business, calmly, quietly doubling, until it covers the pond. You can do the same.<br />
Serene, I fold my hands and wait,<br />
Nor care for wind, nor tide, nor sea;<br />
I rave no more ’gainst time or fate,<br />
For lo! my own shall come to me.<br />
—John Burroughs, Waiting<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong> guarantees that your own shall come to you, like the water<br />
hyacinth covering the pond. <strong>The</strong> way your own shows up, good or bad, failure<br />
or success, win or lose, is, moment by moment, up to you. You need not “care for<br />
wind, or tide, or sea ...”—but you do need to care for those simple little actions<br />
which, compounded over time, will make the difference between your success<br />
or failure.<br />
<strong>The</strong> problem is that most of us live with one foot planted firmly in the past<br />
and the other tucked timidly in the future—never in the moment. In relation<br />
to everything—our kids, our health, our home, our career—we tick through the<br />
hours in constant regret and Monday-morning-quarterbacking about what’s<br />
behind us, and with worry, anxiety and dread about what lies ahead.