The-Slight-Edge
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Two life Paths 107<br />
On which side of the <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong> curve are you standing right now? Which<br />
way are you headed? Are you one of the five-percenters, one of those individuals<br />
living on the success curve and going up—or are you among the great majority,<br />
the ninety-five percenters on the failure curve and sliding down?<br />
Not sure? Perhaps, in the middle, you say? Sorry, there is no middle. You<br />
are either going up or going down. <strong>The</strong> early part of both curves are fairly flat,<br />
so it can certainly look like you’re moving along on a nice, even keel, heading<br />
neither up nor down. But appearances can be deceiving. (And usually are.) In a<br />
constantly and rapidly changing world like ours, you simply cannot remain the<br />
same as you were yesterday. You are in motion—you have no choice in that.<br />
But in which direction? You have total choice in that.<br />
You are either improving or diminishing in personal and professional value.<br />
Your relationships are growing deeper and richer, or growing more stale and<br />
distant. You are learning more and more about the truths of life, or slipping<br />
deeper and deeper into denial about the truths of life. You are building your<br />
long-term security and financial freedom, or dismantling it. And your health is<br />
building day by day ... or ebbing slowly away.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no treading water in life, no running in place, because everything is<br />
in motion. If you’re not improving, enriching, building, unfolding, if you’re not<br />
adding assets to your personal and professional value every day—then you’re<br />
headed down the curve.<br />
So, let’s take an honest look at your life. Where are you right now?<br />
Let’s take an honest look at your health.<br />
Are you building it every day? <strong>The</strong> way you eat, the way you exercise, the<br />
kind of schedule you keep, the ways in which you take care of yourself—are all<br />
these building a greater feeling of health and vibrancy every day? Or does it<br />
feel like you’re making more and more withdrawals from your life-energy bank<br />
account, and the balance is steadily decreasing?<br />
Is your health on the success curve or failure curve?<br />
Let’s take an honest look at your personal development.<br />
Are you learning more about yourself, about the world around you, and<br />
about how life works every day? Are you learning new skills and sharpening old<br />
ones? Are you becoming a more capable person, one more interesting to know<br />
and valuable to be around? Or is your character being gradually etched with the<br />
age-lines of disappointment, disillusionment, boredom and bitterness?<br />
Is your personal development on the success curve or the failure curve?<br />
Let’s take an honest look at your relationships.