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140 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Slight</strong> <strong>Edge</strong><br />

Results Come Last<br />

It is easy to be seduced by the promise of results. We live in a results-oriented<br />

world, a culture that overwhelmingly measures the success of a course of action<br />

by its results. Talk is cheap, after all—and what is it that really matters? Results.<br />

<strong>The</strong> bottom line. Show me. Proof of the pudding’s in the eating, right?<br />

But there is a problem here. <strong>The</strong>re’s a flaw in this thinking. In fact, the flaw in<br />

this thinking is so profound; ninety-five percent of all people’s efforts are ending<br />

up as failure! And what is so remarkable is that this isn’t some deep, hidden,<br />

subtle flaw. It’s so obvious, everyone ought to see it—but it’s so deeply ingrained<br />

in our culture, nearly everyone is hypnotized into missing it.<br />

Here is the flaw: How can you judge the course of action<br />

you’re taking by its results, when its results come last?<br />

<strong>The</strong> problem with focusing on results is simply that it doesn’t work. Having<br />

your attention on your results is like driving your car by looking in the rearview<br />

mirror. Your results live in the past, and like all things in the past, they belong there.<br />

What you can do with your results is learn from them. Results are valuable<br />

feedback. Let them help motivate and guide your tomorrows. But a focus on<br />

results only takes you out of the present moment where the action really is.<br />

What about your actions?<br />

Many approaches to personal and professional development I have observed<br />

go deeper than results by focusing instead on your actions as the place to bring<br />

about positive change. That’s a logical place to start looking, but the problem is<br />

that your actions are not the source of your success or failure.<br />

Again, that’s why diets don’t work; they can’t. <strong>The</strong>y’re doomed to fail<br />

because most diets dictate what your actions should be. <strong>The</strong>y don’t deal with<br />

where your actions come from.<br />

<strong>The</strong> only reliable, consistent way to control your attitudes—that control<br />

your actions, which control your results—is to control your thoughts. And the<br />

source of your thoughts is your philosophy. This is why the master entrepreneur<br />

W. Clement Stone uttered these often-quoted words: “What the mind of man<br />

can conceive and believe, the mind of man can achieve.”<br />

Your philosophy is your paradigm, your view of the way life is. It is how<br />

you say life works or doesn’t work, and determines everything about the course<br />

of actions you’ll choose and keep choosing over time. Your philosophy<br />

is the foundation upon which you build your life.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is nothing more fundamental or essential.<br />

Your philosophy is the source of your failure or success. It is the garden<br />

in which your beliefs grow—and your beliefs lay the fertile groundwork for

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