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English - Ontario Association of Children's Aid Societies

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2. In order for development to occur, it must be preceded by a vision.<br />

“Once a person/family starts to grow, they need to create a vision/picture that<br />

they will use to develop themselves. It is important to develop a vision <strong>of</strong> the<br />

role that a healthy family plays and the values that a healthy person displays<br />

in his or her relationships with family . . . ​”<br />

3. A great learning must take place.<br />

“Everyone needs to be a part <strong>of</strong> the change in order for the change to occur.<br />

The whole life cycle and circle must be involved in the change: baby, youth,<br />

adult, Elder; individual, family, community, Nation.”<br />

4. You must create a healing forest.<br />

A diagram <strong>of</strong> a forest is used to reinforce our interconnection to one another.<br />

“A forest, like a community, is only as healthy as its roots and environment.<br />

Unless individuals, families and communities are provided with a means to<br />

overcome the impact <strong>of</strong> the unhealthy, dysfunctional root systems (anger,<br />

guilt, shame and fear), they will find themselves participating in unhealthy<br />

behaviours.”<br />

MEEKA ARNAKAQ INUIT MODEL OF HEALING<br />

The snow blocks <strong>of</strong> the iglu are used to represent what is needed to develop a healthy<br />

lifestyle. The inside <strong>of</strong> the iglu represents the stages <strong>of</strong> development as an individual. We<br />

need to learn to understand ourselves before we can be a good family member.<br />

The stages are as follows:<br />

> > Becoming aware <strong>of</strong> self<br />

> > Knowing when to set a limit<br />

> > Protecting self<br />

> > Being patient with self<br />

> > Understanding self<br />

> > Speaking for self<br />

> > Self-assessment<br />

> > Self-love<br />

> > Self-gratitude<br />

> > Knowing one’s abilities<br />

> > Self-confidence<br />

> > Being a friend to self<br />

> > Believing in self<br />

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