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He Communicates With His Family By Touching<br />

Umran Köksal, Ali Şerafettin Köksal’s wife, helps us to<br />

communicate with him. To begin with, we ask her when<br />

his husband lost his ability to see. She explains that in<br />

1976, when they got married, she was 16 and he was<br />

21, his husband could see. ‘’He could see until 1982, only<br />

for six years after we got married, and then he slowly<br />

disabled.’’ she says.<br />

According to the statements of his wife, Ali Köksal had<br />

been plunged into darkness, because of the damage on<br />

his brain’s visual cortex as a consequence of high fever<br />

he had when he was a little child. He had surgery many<br />

times,but after every surgery, they were disappointed.<br />

Because he was literate when he could see, he had learnt<br />

the sign language used by deaf people and then he started<br />

to communicate with his wife using a special method<br />

that they developed and based on touching.Umran<br />

Köksal reminds that she has no diffuculty communicating<br />

with his husband bacause her father is also deaf and<br />

dumb. ‘’We used to communicate using sign language,<br />

but now we do this by touching.’’ says Umran Köksal.<br />

She is like her husband’s eyes and ears.<br />

Started Making Models ‘First A Bird Cage’<br />

Umran and Ali Şerafettin Köksal have three children. Their<br />

sons were born when he was still able to see. When his<br />

daughter was born, he had nothing left from the light<br />

he had. Once, Umran Köksal asked her husband ‘’Would<br />

you prefer to hear or to see’’ The answer was ‘’To see’’.<br />

‘’Because he couldn’t see his daughter in her wedding<br />

dress while she was getting married, so he cried so<br />

much.’’ Umran Köksal adds.<br />

When Ali Şerafettin Köksal, deaf and dumb from birth, lost<br />

his ability to see, he had the biggest support from his wife.<br />

Umran Köksal reveales another talent of his husband who<br />

has been already skillful at painting so as not to let him feel<br />

depressed. One day, she brings his skillful husband a bird<br />

cage,made by one of her neighbour’s child.Mr. Köksal tries<br />

to identify it gropingly and says that ‘’ I can do better.’’<br />

Umran Köksal says that ‘’He was already accustomed<br />

to carpenter’s tools at the time he could see,so the bird<br />

cage just led the way.’’ Meanwhile, she shows us the<br />

wooden models on the shelves and states proudly that<br />

‘I discovered my husband’s talent.’ Umran Köksal had all

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