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Bill Cady, The Early Years … by Bill Cady 278<br />

happened at The Board of Water & Light, except for an incident that opened my eyes, in<br />

a manner of speaking.<br />

Ralph G. Carlson, M.D., was our family doctor back there in Lansing, Michigan.<br />

When I outgrew my pediatrician, Mom started taking me to see him. Even as a kid, I<br />

never liked him. He was a bit overweight. Had brown hair in a crew cut with a flat top.<br />

He was, in my still juvenile opinion, even kinda ugly. He also smoked while treating<br />

patients, which I thought was gross as hell until I started smoking, circa age fifteen.<br />

I recall the time I made an appointment with him in 1980 to see my dad and me at<br />

the same time. As the family doctor, he was to advise my retired old man, a very heavy<br />

smoker, why he had to quit. How it was killing him, and the slow death he‟d soon face<br />

without making some immediate changes.<br />

Dad and I were both waiting in a treatment room when Carlson came in and took<br />

a seat. To my undying surprise and astonishment, just before he began his lecture on the<br />

evils of smoking, the son-of-a-bitch lit one himself! He put it in an ashtray and puffed<br />

away while he lectured his patient.<br />

You might not believe this, but that visit seemed to have no effect on my old man.<br />

He kept smoking, like always, and died of emphysema and the beginning of lung cancer<br />

at age seventy-nine, six days short of his eightieth birthday.<br />

I drank like a fish until I was about fifty-one, then dialed it down to almost<br />

nothing, voluntarily. It just seemed right, so I did it. The drinking began when I was<br />

fifteen and did nothing but increase until later in my life, when it faded out.<br />

I had a job with the Board of Water & Light, Lansing‟s power and utility<br />

company. I worked in Building Construction and Maintenance. We did everything, from<br />

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