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25 Biggest Mistakes Teachers Make and How to Avoid Them

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176 Teaching Style <strong>and</strong> Behavior<br />

SCENARIOS 23.2, 23.3, 23.4, <strong>and</strong> 23.5<br />

Arbitrary Scapegoats<br />

It was in sixth grade, we were working on an art project <strong>and</strong> someone lost the project.<br />

The teacher (Sister A. we called her sister Asusta—it means scary) accused me of stealing<br />

it <strong>and</strong> basically humiliated me in front of the class. I started crying <strong>and</strong> kept on telling<br />

her that I had not taken the vase. We were making a paper-maché vase. The vase<br />

turned up from someone else. She never apologized <strong>to</strong> me about what she had said.<br />

In orchestra we had <strong>to</strong> perform our tests, sometimes live, this time on tape. The next<br />

day, the teacher was angry because the tape machine was used incorrectly. She blamed<br />

me <strong>and</strong> reprim<strong>and</strong>ed me in front of the class as the one who messed it up. It wasn’t me.<br />

J.W. did it <strong>and</strong> he admitted it later. I was made <strong>to</strong> feel embarrassed in front of everyone<br />

when I wasn’t at fault. She never apologized <strong>to</strong> me privately or publicly.<br />

I was in kindergarten when I was accused of throwing rocks on the playground. I had<br />

<strong>to</strong> sit down the rest of recess. My teacher went on the word of her pet student. I was<br />

not a troublemaker in class so I was really upset. I remember that I just sat there <strong>and</strong><br />

cried.<br />

The teacher that I least like <strong>to</strong> remember is Ms. M. She was my sixth-grade homeroom<br />

teacher. I really didn’t like her because it seemed that she was always in a bad mood. She<br />

seemed <strong>to</strong> always take it out on us. She would never let us go <strong>to</strong> the restroom. Well, I<br />

guess the real reason that I didn’t like her is because she wanted <strong>to</strong> punish me for something<br />

I didn’t do. This girl who sat next <strong>to</strong> me, M., was throwing staples across the room.<br />

One accidentally hit Ms. M. on the neck. She asked the students who it was <strong>and</strong> they<br />

said it came from the direction that I was sitting in. So I was accused of this. I kept telling<br />

her that it wasn’t me. Even M. denied it <strong>and</strong> said it was me, but it wasn’t. So, I was sent<br />

<strong>to</strong> the office. My mom was called <strong>and</strong> I <strong>to</strong>ld her what happened. My mom believed me,<br />

but the vice-principal didn’t. The only reason they didn’t punish me is because my mom<br />

swore she wouldn’t let the issue rest. After that I didn’t like Ms. M. much.<br />

The students in these scenarios<br />

were all impulsively<br />

selected <strong>to</strong> bear the blame for someone<br />

else’s misdeeds. None of the<br />

teachers actually saw the accused<br />

student do anything wrong. They<br />

would each have <strong>to</strong> examine their<br />

consciences or biases <strong>to</strong> determine<br />

why they arbitrarily selected the students<br />

they accused. <strong>Teachers</strong> who<br />

make accusations without any evidence<br />

or proof have a number of<br />

reasons for justifying their accusa<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

actions: The student looks sneaky,<br />

guilty, nervous, or suspicious; they<br />

don’t like the student; or maybe they<br />

don’t trust the student. In some of<br />

these cases, students are guilty by<br />

association or by proximity.<br />

When these teachers feel personally<br />

<strong>to</strong>uched by a wrongdoing, they<br />

look for someone <strong>to</strong> blame. When<br />

there is doubt, they will settle for a<br />

scapegoat.

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