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25 Biggest Mistakes Teachers Make and How to Avoid Them

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Mistake<br />

6<br />

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Physiological Discrimination<br />

SCENARIO 6.1<br />

The Antifat Motive<br />

When I was in ninth grade, I tried out for the cheerleading/pom-pom squad. I made it.<br />

I was thrilled. I was excited because even though I was a little overweight, I had been<br />

chosen. I went <strong>to</strong> practices, games, followed the routines, <strong>and</strong> tried <strong>to</strong> have fun. It was<br />

difficult sometimes because the others girls would make fun of me or call me names.<br />

Now during this time, I didn’t really lose or gain any weight. So here was the issue. My<br />

coach called me in<strong>to</strong> her office <strong>and</strong> said that one of the main reasons I was on the team<br />

was so that I could get more physically fit. Boy was I taken aback. I was so hurt <strong>and</strong><br />

disappointed in her <strong>and</strong> myself. I still love being a “st<strong>and</strong> cheerleader,” but I never tried<br />

out again.<br />

The coach obviously had a<br />

hidden motive for selecting<br />

the overweight student for the cheerleading<br />

squad: <strong>to</strong> make the student<br />

lose weight. When the student did<br />

not lose weight, the coach felt compelled<br />

<strong>to</strong> reveal a personal “antifat”<br />

motive. This c<strong>and</strong>id revelation clearly<br />

communicated <strong>to</strong> the student that<br />

she was not okay, that she was fat<br />

<strong>and</strong> she needed “fixing.” Perhaps the<br />

coach’s intent was <strong>to</strong> shame her in<strong>to</strong><br />

losing weight by telling her that she<br />

was chosen because of her weight<br />

problem <strong>and</strong> not her merit, skill, or<br />

value. The coach’s motive was selfserving.<br />

If the student lost weight<br />

once she was a member of the team,<br />

the coach could claim credit for healing<br />

the student’s “fat affliction.” The<br />

cost of this “benevolent” act <strong>to</strong> the<br />

student ’ s self-esteem was immeasurable.<br />

Although the teacher may have<br />

felt her intentions were good, her<br />

behavior was indefensible <strong>and</strong> needlessly<br />

painful for the student.<br />

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