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25 Biggest Mistakes Teachers Make and How to Avoid Them

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Teacher Confessions of Worst Treatment of a Child<br />

beliefs (B<strong>and</strong>ura, 1969) or their confidence about their capabilities. As a consequence,<br />

they may feel inadequate or incompetent, feelings that foster feelings<br />

of defensiveness or resentment. <strong>Teachers</strong>’ biased beliefs <strong>and</strong> perceptions<br />

about students that are ethnically <strong>and</strong> economically different <strong>and</strong> teachers’<br />

limited exposure <strong>to</strong> such children may manifest as culture clash <strong>and</strong> incite discrimina<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

behavior. Unfortunately, some preservice teachers view teaching<br />

as a “soft” profession. They come in<strong>to</strong> the profession unaware <strong>and</strong> unprepared<br />

for the “hard” side of teaching such as student misconduct, drug use,<br />

assault, insubordination, <strong>and</strong> so on. Such beliefs are often the basis of negative<br />

classroom interactions <strong>and</strong> possible academic trauma for students.<br />

There are a number of psychosocial fac<strong>to</strong>rs underlying the causes of aberrant<br />

teacher behavior. Some of them are listed below, accompanied by recommendations<br />

for avoiding the negative outcomes of these fac<strong>to</strong>rs.<br />

Sometimes teachers experience a discrepancy between their actual self <strong>and</strong><br />

their ideal self. Such a perception fosters feelings of inadequacy, discontent, dissatisfaction,<br />

<strong>and</strong> displaced anger. To avoid this perception, they could develop a<br />

more realistic perspective of their strengths <strong>and</strong> weaknesses <strong>and</strong> make a concerted<br />

effort <strong>to</strong> close the gap. Substance abuse is a reality for millions of people;<br />

teachers are no exception. <strong>Teachers</strong> under the influence of alcohol or drugs are<br />

very likely <strong>to</strong> be irritable, reactive, <strong>and</strong> short on patience. Fortunately, there are<br />

rehabilitation facilities, professional counseling <strong>and</strong> support groups <strong>to</strong> help them<br />

manage their addiction. A family his<strong>to</strong>ry of substance abuse has its own set of<br />

problems. People from such families are referred <strong>to</strong> as adult children of alcoholics.<br />

They have what their support groups refer <strong>to</strong> as a laundry list of problems<br />

that can be directly attributed <strong>to</strong> the dysfunction of the addicts in their family,<br />

parents in particular. To minimize the negative outcome of this family situation,<br />

teachers can avail themselves of the positive support groups that help them <strong>to</strong><br />

recognize <strong>and</strong> minimize the effects of their childhood, by stressing that childhood<br />

is over <strong>and</strong> they must find positive ways of coping with life <strong>and</strong> move on.<br />

Sadly, teachers who have had an oppressive or abusive teacher in the past<br />

may identify with the oppressor because they know what hurts or what has<br />

a negative effect because it was done <strong>to</strong> them. They may see the oppressor as<br />

having the power <strong>and</strong> that is what they want, the power <strong>and</strong> control that<br />

they did not have as a child. Those teachers who have experienced being a<br />

powerless child dealing with aversive academic experiences can put their<br />

past situation in<strong>to</strong> perspective through guided imagery. Using this technique,<br />

they mentally place themselves in a protective bubble <strong>to</strong> mentally<br />

revisit the past scenario of their mistreatment, <strong>to</strong> be reminded that it was not<br />

a desirable situation, but they lived through it, <strong>and</strong> <strong>to</strong> assure that they would<br />

never want <strong>to</strong> emulate the offending teachers’ behavior.<br />

Unfortunately, allergies, physiological imbalances such as menopause,<br />

PMS, bipolar disorder <strong>and</strong> other mental illnesses can fuel out-of-control<br />

teacher behavior. Fortunately, negative outcomes can be avoided with appropriate<br />

medical help, counseling, <strong>and</strong> behavioral management of various disorders.<br />

Some teachers have an excessive need for control; they feel they can’t trust<br />

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