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Feeding your child<br />

P ROBLEMS<br />

WITH EATING<br />

It can be a great worry if your child<br />

refuses to eat or is terribly choosy,<br />

but it is extremely rare for a child to<br />

actually starve him or herself.<br />

Children will eat enough to keep<br />

them going. So try not to worry<br />

unless your child is clearly not<br />

gaining weight as he or she should<br />

(see pages 37-9), or is obviously<br />

unwell.<br />

It may be that your child is<br />

picking up your own feelings about<br />

food. Perhaps you’re a dieter or have<br />

a weight problem, or maybe you just<br />

see healthy eating as a very<br />

important goal. If your child is<br />

picking up on your anxiety it may<br />

be that mealtimes have become an<br />

ideal time to get attention.<br />

Just as anxiety may cause problems<br />

with toilet training, it can also create<br />

problems with eating. So try to take<br />

a step back and think about how<br />

much of a problem there really is.<br />

REFUSING TO EAT, OR EATING<br />

VERY LITTLE<br />

As long as your child eats some food<br />

from each of the five food groups –<br />

even if it’s always the same old<br />

favourites – you shouldn’t have to<br />

worry. Gradually offer other food<br />

choices. Or why not go back to the<br />

foods your child didn’t like earlier<br />

and try them again? Remember, if<br />

your child is active and gaining<br />

weight, he or she is probably getting<br />

enough to eat however little it<br />

appears to you.<br />

Tips for success<br />

•<br />

Offer your child the same food<br />

you’re giving your family, and eat<br />

your meals together if possible.<br />

• Give smaller portions and praise<br />

your child for eating even a little.<br />

•<br />

If your child rejects the food, don’t<br />

force-feed him or her. Remove the<br />

food without comment.<br />

• Don’t leave meals until your<br />

child is too hungry or tired.<br />

•<br />

Don’t use sweet food as a reward for<br />

finishing savouries. To a child this<br />

might be saying, ‘<strong>Here</strong>’s something<br />

nice after eating those nasty greens’.<br />

Reward them with a trip to the park<br />

or watching a video instead.<br />

• Your child knows that refusing to<br />

eat will annoy you, so try to stay<br />

calm. Eating with your child and<br />

eating the same foods will help to<br />

encourage good eating habits.<br />

•<br />

Don’t make snacks too big as they<br />

may reduce your child’s appetite for<br />

main meals. Limit snacks to, for<br />

example, a milk drink and some<br />

fruit slices or a small cracker with a<br />

slice of cheese.<br />

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