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Feeding your child<br />
P ROBLEMS<br />
WITH EATING<br />
It can be a great worry if your child<br />
refuses to eat or is terribly choosy,<br />
but it is extremely rare for a child to<br />
actually starve him or herself.<br />
Children will eat enough to keep<br />
them going. So try not to worry<br />
unless your child is clearly not<br />
gaining weight as he or she should<br />
(see pages 37-9), or is obviously<br />
unwell.<br />
It may be that your child is<br />
picking up your own feelings about<br />
food. Perhaps you’re a dieter or have<br />
a weight problem, or maybe you just<br />
see healthy eating as a very<br />
important goal. If your child is<br />
picking up on your anxiety it may<br />
be that mealtimes have become an<br />
ideal time to get attention.<br />
Just as anxiety may cause problems<br />
with toilet training, it can also create<br />
problems with eating. So try to take<br />
a step back and think about how<br />
much of a problem there really is.<br />
REFUSING TO EAT, OR EATING<br />
VERY LITTLE<br />
As long as your child eats some food<br />
from each of the five food groups –<br />
even if it’s always the same old<br />
favourites – you shouldn’t have to<br />
worry. Gradually offer other food<br />
choices. Or why not go back to the<br />
foods your child didn’t like earlier<br />
and try them again? Remember, if<br />
your child is active and gaining<br />
weight, he or she is probably getting<br />
enough to eat however little it<br />
appears to you.<br />
Tips for success<br />
•<br />
Offer your child the same food<br />
you’re giving your family, and eat<br />
your meals together if possible.<br />
• Give smaller portions and praise<br />
your child for eating even a little.<br />
•<br />
If your child rejects the food, don’t<br />
force-feed him or her. Remove the<br />
food without comment.<br />
• Don’t leave meals until your<br />
child is too hungry or tired.<br />
•<br />
Don’t use sweet food as a reward for<br />
finishing savouries. To a child this<br />
might be saying, ‘<strong>Here</strong>’s something<br />
nice after eating those nasty greens’.<br />
Reward them with a trip to the park<br />
or watching a video instead.<br />
• Your child knows that refusing to<br />
eat will annoy you, so try to stay<br />
calm. Eating with your child and<br />
eating the same foods will help to<br />
encourage good eating habits.<br />
•<br />
Don’t make snacks too big as they<br />
may reduce your child’s appetite for<br />
main meals. Limit snacks to, for<br />
example, a milk drink and some<br />
fruit slices or a small cracker with a<br />
slice of cheese.<br />
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