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State of the World's Children 2013 - Unicef

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If people with disabilities can’t believe in <strong>the</strong>mselves or if o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

don’t believe in <strong>the</strong>m, I will believe in <strong>the</strong>m – and hopefully my<br />

positivity will spread and encourage more positivity.<br />

for me to go to university next<br />

year with all <strong>the</strong> adjustments<br />

I need.<br />

So many children with disabilities<br />

are not celebrated for <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

capabilities and are hidden<br />

away from <strong>the</strong> world because<br />

<strong>of</strong> fear and ignorance. We need<br />

to realize that people with disabilities<br />

are crucial in our population.<br />

People with disabilities<br />

are <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>the</strong> ones who think<br />

outside <strong>the</strong> box – because we<br />

have to. We have to make our<br />

disabilities work for us and not<br />

against us, and teach o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

to be caring and empa<strong>the</strong>tic.<br />

Empathy, something <strong>the</strong> world<br />

desperately needs.<br />

I believe that <strong>the</strong>re are two<br />

main issues to be tackled on a<br />

worldwide level – accessibility<br />

and attitudes. These issues<br />

are interconnected and cannot<br />

be dealt with one by one. If<br />

people can change <strong>the</strong> worldwide<br />

attitude towards disability<br />

from one <strong>of</strong> pity, shame and<br />

inferiority to one <strong>of</strong> abundance,<br />

acceptance and equality, <strong>the</strong>n<br />

we will see amazing progress.<br />

Positive attitudes can lead to<br />

improved accessibility – just as<br />

inaccessibility is an expression<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> view that <strong>the</strong> needs <strong>of</strong><br />

people with disabilities are less<br />

important than those <strong>of</strong> ablebodied<br />

people, an attitude that<br />

has negative consequences<br />

for people with and without<br />

disabilities.<br />

Improved attitudes should<br />

also help address o<strong>the</strong>r major<br />

issues, such as our experiences<br />

<strong>of</strong> education. I have been in<br />

every form <strong>of</strong> education that<br />

a person with a disability can<br />

do: special needs school, mainstream<br />

state primary and high<br />

school, mainstream private<br />

high school. I wouldn’t say I’m<br />

an expert, but <strong>the</strong>re’s a lot to<br />

be said for experience. It was<br />

certainly not always easy and<br />

simple. Often it was a struggle,<br />

and at times I was incredibly<br />

unhappy. I worked really hard<br />

to be included and to make it<br />

easier for <strong>the</strong> people who are<br />

going to come after me. I am<br />

finishing my school career in a<br />

place where I am fully included<br />

and accepted. When I think<br />

about it, all I feel is relief –<br />

relief that I don’t have to fight<br />

so hard for my own happiness<br />

anymore. Now I can fight<br />

harder for o<strong>the</strong>r people with<br />

disabilities and <strong>the</strong>ir right to<br />

happiness.<br />

It may seem that I am always<br />

a super-positive person. This<br />

is not <strong>the</strong> case. I have had my<br />

struggles, and I am sure that<br />

<strong>the</strong>y are not over. The thing<br />

that tips <strong>the</strong> scale towards positivity<br />

is <strong>the</strong> fact that I am surrounded<br />

by people who believe<br />

in my ability and are positive<br />

about my contribution to society<br />

– people who counter my<br />

negative days. I really love<br />

<strong>the</strong>m for that.<br />

My lifetime goal is to have disability<br />

become something that<br />

is completely accepted and<br />

embraced by <strong>the</strong> global community.<br />

It may be a big task,<br />

and it may have many facets,<br />

but I believe it’s entirely<br />

possible.<br />

It starts with believing. I believe<br />

in my abilities; I believe wholeheartedly<br />

that I can make<br />

change happen – that I can<br />

change lives. If people with disabilities<br />

can’t believe in <strong>the</strong>mselves<br />

or if o<strong>the</strong>rs don’t believe<br />

in <strong>the</strong>m, I will believe in <strong>the</strong>m –<br />

and hopefully my positivity will<br />

spread and encourage more<br />

positivity. This might seem<br />

insignificant to some but it’s<br />

still change.<br />

One bite <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> elephant at<br />

a time.<br />

HUMANITARIAN RESPONSE<br />

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