1993 Volume 116 No 1–4 - Phi Delta Theta Scroll Archive
1993 Volume 116 No 1–4 - Phi Delta Theta Scroll Archive
1993 Volume 116 No 1–4 - Phi Delta Theta Scroll Archive
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matter. Rick told us most of what we<br />
needed to know, but in order to<br />
prepare for a campus judicial<br />
hearing, it was necessary to have a<br />
full investigation.<br />
My first hazing investigation<br />
lasted one full week. Two other<br />
members of my staff and a representative<br />
from the fraternity's headquarters<br />
conducted 57 hours of<br />
interviews. We questioned pledges,<br />
actives, and alunmi.<br />
After dozens of interviews, I was<br />
getting kind of sick and tired of<br />
hearing the lurid details of "bows<br />
and toes" (where pledges are forced<br />
to support themselves on their<br />
elbows and toes on the floor for long<br />
periods of time), of eating mixtures of<br />
pet food and sardines, of paddling, of<br />
hanging pledges over doors, of<br />
verbal abuse and endless other<br />
moronic acts of "inspiration."<br />
I'U never forget interviewing Lee,<br />
one of the pledges of the chapter. Lee<br />
told the review board something we<br />
hadn't heard before. He described<br />
one common activity where the<br />
pledges performed pushups in<br />
puddles of urine provided by the<br />
active members.<br />
"Sometimes," Lee told us, "they<br />
come by and push your face in it."<br />
I was incredulous.<br />
"Lee, how in the world could you<br />
let somebody do that to you" I asked.<br />
"Because thaf s what pledges are<br />
supposed to do," he repHed, as if my<br />
question had been absent-minded.<br />
This unanticipated response made<br />
me so angry that n\y ears went hot,<br />
and I had to bite my tongue and grip<br />
the arms of my chair. <strong>No</strong>t only had<br />
this hazing dehumanized these<br />
young men, it had brainwashed them<br />
into believing the abuse was good for<br />
them. This was my first experience<br />
with how hazing perpetuates itself.<br />
When the board interviewed the<br />
chapter officers, we heard the<br />
infamous Utany of excuses that for so<br />
long has been used to justify hazing:<br />
"it builds unity," "it makes them<br />
men," "if s tradition," "it was done to<br />
me," ad nauseam. The men saying<br />
these things, men who were abusing<br />
and letting their future brothers be<br />
abused, were the best that this<br />
fraternity had to offer. They were the<br />
leaders. I wondered about these men<br />
who would one day be in business<br />
and raising children.<br />
What do you replace hazing with<br />
Once a chapter decides that hazing should be removed from the pledge<br />
program, the most common quandary is "What do we do instead"<br />
The pledge period is seen as a test or obstacle that the <strong>Phi</strong>keia must<br />
pass in order to eam initiation. If the "teeth" of the program are removed,<br />
how can the <strong>Phi</strong>keia prove himseU worthy of membership<br />
Since the goal of any good pledge program is to create quaUty members,<br />
pledge activities should cultivate a <strong>Phi</strong>keia's self-confidence and teach him<br />
how to be a contributing member of the chapter.<br />
With that in mind, a pledge program should contam assignments or<br />
events that foster leadership, scholarship skills, service, values, and teamwork.<br />
Conununity service projects are multipurpose, because they promote<br />
values, require teamwork, initiative, and organizational skUls. Requiring the<br />
<strong>Phi</strong>keias to be a member of a chapter committee or another campus<br />
organization also teaches leadership and prepares the <strong>Phi</strong>keia for chapter<br />
leadership. A good set of scholarship requirements also provides a challenging,<br />
but necessary, hurtle for the <strong>Phi</strong>keias before initiation.<br />
Other activities Uke sports, refreats, brotherhood events, speakers at the<br />
chapter, workshops on study skills, and other campus events can be fun,<br />
educational, and wiU bring the <strong>Phi</strong>kieas together.<br />
There is also a series of exercises published by WiUiam Pfeiffer and John<br />
Jones caUed Handbook of Structured Experiences for Human Relations Training.<br />
This series of booklets (avaUable in any imiversity Ubrary) provides detaUed<br />
exercises which deal with a variety of issues, including teamwork, confrontational<br />
skills, and relationship buUding. Many of these exercises are perfect<br />
for developing interpersonal skills.<br />
Other ideas for creating a chaUenging pledge program can be obtained<br />
through your campus Greek advisor or through General Headquarters. •<br />
"Didn't you know hazing is<br />
moraUy wrong" 1 asked Chuck, the<br />
chapter president. I had known<br />
Chuck through the Interfratemity<br />
Coundl and from working with his<br />
chapter on several projects. He<br />
evaded the question.<br />
"<strong>No</strong>body got hurt. We keep<br />
everything imder control. The<br />
pledges didn't mind doing it. In fact,<br />
they wanted to," he explained with<br />
the bravado of someone who doesn't<br />
realize he is in serious frouble.<br />
I knew it pointless to press him<br />
further. By not answering my<br />
question, he had answered it.<br />
The alumni didn't understand<br />
what the uproar was about. When it<br />
became apparent the University<br />
would severely discipline the<br />
chapter, a group of them came to the<br />
University armed with the same<br />
empty justification that the actives<br />
had used. The alumni also reminded<br />
the administration of the support the<br />
fratemity had given the University<br />
over the years. But it fell on deaf ears.<br />
The problems with the press, irrate<br />
parents, the faculty, and other<br />
student organizations, which had<br />
manifested because of this one<br />
incident, outweighed the years of<br />
alumni support. The members were<br />
obviously wrong, and they needed<br />
more than a slap on the wrist.<br />
Despite the hoUow argimients and<br />
threats from the chapter's alimini, the<br />
University disbanded the fratemity<br />
for a period of one year. The house<br />
was emptied. Members directly<br />
involved with the hazing activities<br />
were expeUed from the chapter.<br />
There were no parties, no rush<br />
events, no activities at all.<br />
Ifelt empty and befrayed at the end<br />
of the investigation. The kids we<br />
had punished had sat in my office<br />
and worked with me on many<br />
projects. They had assured me that<br />
they didn't haze. Maybe I had given<br />
these young men too much credit. I<br />
was fmsfrated by the alimrmi, and I<br />
sympathized with the freshmen who<br />
would miss out on a year of their<br />
fraterruty experience. I felt sorry for<br />
Lee who had no greater expectations<br />
of pledging than to do pushups in<br />
puddles of urine. But I had great<br />
admiration for Rick who had the<br />
values, the courage, and the foresight<br />
to step forward and stop what he<br />
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