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1993 Volume 116 No 1–4 - Phi Delta Theta Scroll Archive

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matter. Rick told us most of what we<br />

needed to know, but in order to<br />

prepare for a campus judicial<br />

hearing, it was necessary to have a<br />

full investigation.<br />

My first hazing investigation<br />

lasted one full week. Two other<br />

members of my staff and a representative<br />

from the fraternity's headquarters<br />

conducted 57 hours of<br />

interviews. We questioned pledges,<br />

actives, and alunmi.<br />

After dozens of interviews, I was<br />

getting kind of sick and tired of<br />

hearing the lurid details of "bows<br />

and toes" (where pledges are forced<br />

to support themselves on their<br />

elbows and toes on the floor for long<br />

periods of time), of eating mixtures of<br />

pet food and sardines, of paddling, of<br />

hanging pledges over doors, of<br />

verbal abuse and endless other<br />

moronic acts of "inspiration."<br />

I'U never forget interviewing Lee,<br />

one of the pledges of the chapter. Lee<br />

told the review board something we<br />

hadn't heard before. He described<br />

one common activity where the<br />

pledges performed pushups in<br />

puddles of urine provided by the<br />

active members.<br />

"Sometimes," Lee told us, "they<br />

come by and push your face in it."<br />

I was incredulous.<br />

"Lee, how in the world could you<br />

let somebody do that to you" I asked.<br />

"Because thaf s what pledges are<br />

supposed to do," he repHed, as if my<br />

question had been absent-minded.<br />

This unanticipated response made<br />

me so angry that n\y ears went hot,<br />

and I had to bite my tongue and grip<br />

the arms of my chair. <strong>No</strong>t only had<br />

this hazing dehumanized these<br />

young men, it had brainwashed them<br />

into believing the abuse was good for<br />

them. This was my first experience<br />

with how hazing perpetuates itself.<br />

When the board interviewed the<br />

chapter officers, we heard the<br />

infamous Utany of excuses that for so<br />

long has been used to justify hazing:<br />

"it builds unity," "it makes them<br />

men," "if s tradition," "it was done to<br />

me," ad nauseam. The men saying<br />

these things, men who were abusing<br />

and letting their future brothers be<br />

abused, were the best that this<br />

fraternity had to offer. They were the<br />

leaders. I wondered about these men<br />

who would one day be in business<br />

and raising children.<br />

What do you replace hazing with<br />

Once a chapter decides that hazing should be removed from the pledge<br />

program, the most common quandary is "What do we do instead"<br />

The pledge period is seen as a test or obstacle that the <strong>Phi</strong>keia must<br />

pass in order to eam initiation. If the "teeth" of the program are removed,<br />

how can the <strong>Phi</strong>keia prove himseU worthy of membership<br />

Since the goal of any good pledge program is to create quaUty members,<br />

pledge activities should cultivate a <strong>Phi</strong>keia's self-confidence and teach him<br />

how to be a contributing member of the chapter.<br />

With that in mind, a pledge program should contam assignments or<br />

events that foster leadership, scholarship skills, service, values, and teamwork.<br />

Conununity service projects are multipurpose, because they promote<br />

values, require teamwork, initiative, and organizational skUls. Requiring the<br />

<strong>Phi</strong>keias to be a member of a chapter committee or another campus<br />

organization also teaches leadership and prepares the <strong>Phi</strong>keia for chapter<br />

leadership. A good set of scholarship requirements also provides a challenging,<br />

but necessary, hurtle for the <strong>Phi</strong>keias before initiation.<br />

Other activities Uke sports, refreats, brotherhood events, speakers at the<br />

chapter, workshops on study skills, and other campus events can be fun,<br />

educational, and wiU bring the <strong>Phi</strong>kieas together.<br />

There is also a series of exercises published by WiUiam Pfeiffer and John<br />

Jones caUed Handbook of Structured Experiences for Human Relations Training.<br />

This series of booklets (avaUable in any imiversity Ubrary) provides detaUed<br />

exercises which deal with a variety of issues, including teamwork, confrontational<br />

skills, and relationship buUding. Many of these exercises are perfect<br />

for developing interpersonal skills.<br />

Other ideas for creating a chaUenging pledge program can be obtained<br />

through your campus Greek advisor or through General Headquarters. •<br />

"Didn't you know hazing is<br />

moraUy wrong" 1 asked Chuck, the<br />

chapter president. I had known<br />

Chuck through the Interfratemity<br />

Coundl and from working with his<br />

chapter on several projects. He<br />

evaded the question.<br />

"<strong>No</strong>body got hurt. We keep<br />

everything imder control. The<br />

pledges didn't mind doing it. In fact,<br />

they wanted to," he explained with<br />

the bravado of someone who doesn't<br />

realize he is in serious frouble.<br />

I knew it pointless to press him<br />

further. By not answering my<br />

question, he had answered it.<br />

The alumni didn't understand<br />

what the uproar was about. When it<br />

became apparent the University<br />

would severely discipline the<br />

chapter, a group of them came to the<br />

University armed with the same<br />

empty justification that the actives<br />

had used. The alumni also reminded<br />

the administration of the support the<br />

fratemity had given the University<br />

over the years. But it fell on deaf ears.<br />

The problems with the press, irrate<br />

parents, the faculty, and other<br />

student organizations, which had<br />

manifested because of this one<br />

incident, outweighed the years of<br />

alumni support. The members were<br />

obviously wrong, and they needed<br />

more than a slap on the wrist.<br />

Despite the hoUow argimients and<br />

threats from the chapter's alimini, the<br />

University disbanded the fratemity<br />

for a period of one year. The house<br />

was emptied. Members directly<br />

involved with the hazing activities<br />

were expeUed from the chapter.<br />

There were no parties, no rush<br />

events, no activities at all.<br />

Ifelt empty and befrayed at the end<br />

of the investigation. The kids we<br />

had punished had sat in my office<br />

and worked with me on many<br />

projects. They had assured me that<br />

they didn't haze. Maybe I had given<br />

these young men too much credit. I<br />

was fmsfrated by the alimrmi, and I<br />

sympathized with the freshmen who<br />

would miss out on a year of their<br />

fraterruty experience. I felt sorry for<br />

Lee who had no greater expectations<br />

of pledging than to do pushups in<br />

puddles of urine. But I had great<br />

admiration for Rick who had the<br />

values, the courage, and the foresight<br />

to step forward and stop what he<br />

54 TheScroU * Spring <strong>1993</strong>

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