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Hazrat Abu Zar (Radi<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu) again asked: “Advise me more.”<br />

Rasulullah (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) replied: “Refrain from excessive laughter for<br />

that kills the (spiritu<strong>al</strong>) heart and causes the light of the face to depart.”<br />

Again Hazrat Abu Zar (Radi<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu) asked: “Advise me more.”<br />

Rasulull<strong>al</strong>i (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) said: “Speak the truth at <strong>al</strong>l times even though it<br />

be bitter.”<br />

When Hazrat Abu Zar (Radi<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu) again asked for more Rasulullah (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu<br />

Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) said: “Take notice of your faults for this will prevent you from<br />

noticing the faults of others.” (Mishkat)<br />

My object in penning down these last few lines is to point out our folly. We are at <strong>al</strong>l<br />

times searching for the faults of others. If we cast a look at ourselves and do a bit of selfexamination,<br />

neither will we find the time to discuss the faults of others, nor will we have<br />

the courage to spread their faults far and wide. We will then be only too occupied with<br />

our own iniquities.<br />

In the testament (wassiyyat-nama) of Maulana Raipuri we find the following Persian<br />

Couplet:<br />

“While on board at sea, Shahab, my Sheikh, gave me two advices which were most<br />

precious to me: One: that you be not filled with your ego and Two: do not look for the<br />

faults in others.<br />

Rasulullah (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) once gave some advice to Sayyidina Ma’az<br />

(Radj<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu). Then he said to him: “And now, after <strong>al</strong>l that, sh<strong>al</strong>l I tell you that<br />

whereby it will be easy for you to act on these?”<br />

Ma’az (Radi<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu) said: “Yes, indeed, do tell me.”<br />

Rasulullah (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) then pointed towards his tongue and said: “This<br />

is it. Keep it under control.” (Mishkat)<br />

Sayyidina Ma’az (Radi<strong>al</strong>lahu anhu) asked: “0 Messenger of Allah! Will we be c<strong>al</strong>led to<br />

account for our tongues <strong>al</strong>so?”<br />

Rasulullah (S<strong>al</strong>l<strong>al</strong>lahu Alayhi Was<strong>al</strong>lam) said: “Is there anything else except the heaps of<br />

the tongue that causes a man to be cast on his face into hell?” (Mishkat, Haakim)<br />

By the “heaps of the tongue” is meant that just as the sickle cuts the crop and makes<br />

heaps in places, so the scissors of the tongue <strong>al</strong>so clips t<strong>al</strong>ks and accumulates them in one<br />

place viz, the book of one’s deeds.<br />

Al- Eti’da<strong>al</strong> Fi Maraatibur- Rija<strong>al</strong> 106

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