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But when you make a plan, what do you have to gain from being welded to
the expectations inherent in it? Nothing. When you are free from its
expectations you are “in a dance” with life where you can simply execute the
plan, and deal with what happens.
If it succeeds, you can celebrate. If it fails, you can re-calibrate.
Don’t expect victory or defeat. Plan for victory, learn from defeat. The
expectation of people loving you or respecting you or a pointless exercise
too. Be free to love them the way they are and be loved the way that they
love you. Free yourself from the burden and melodrama of expectation, let
the chips fall where they may.
Love the life you have, not the one you expected to have.
“I expect nothing and accept everything.” This simple personal assertion gets
you out of your head and powerfully into your life, out of your thoughts and
into your reality. Problems, barriers, disagreements and disappointments are
all part of every human beings’ life.
Your job is to not get caught up in that crap, to stay out of the swamp of
mediocrity and drama, to reach for your greatest self, your greatest potential
and to challenge yourself to live that life every single day of it.
Your life, your success, your happiness, really is in your own hands. The
power to change, the power to let go, be adventurous and embrace your
potential all lies within your reach. Remember, no one can save you, no one
can shift you, all of that is your responsibility and what better time to
embrace that change than now?