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Nepali. The words for this blessing were different for different people<br />

depending on their st at us and aspi ra t ions for the year, a 1 though there<br />

were some standard elements. When he had finished, the recipient<br />

prostrated him or herself at his feet and quickly came up again,<br />

throwing any ricela in their hands back over their head. The TikEi<br />

giver gave them a present - usually a marigold flower and a small note<br />

or coin. Daughters-in-law might receive a little more, in a leaf plate.<br />

Men might not receive anything, i t depended on the family.<br />

The eldest unmarried daughter received Tikg first (Plate 12),<br />

followed by whoever was around but in a vague order through daughters-<br />

in-law (including brothers' daughters-in-law) and their chiidren, nieces<br />

and on to male relatives. However, much depended on when peopie turned<br />

up to receive their Tik6 and who wanted it (rather different from the<br />

highly symbolic order of Tika dispensing observed by Bennett (1983)<br />

amongst Brahmin households). People could come any time from now up to<br />

full moon to receive their Tik6, although those who were particularly<br />

close to the householder and in the vicinity were expected to come more<br />

promptly. The only woman who did not receive a TikEi from the<br />

householder was his wife. After receiving m, the recipient was<br />

usually invited into the kitchen for a snack of meat with cyur& (rice<br />

flakes) and some cuha or raksi.<br />

The rest of the day was spent in recreation. An important element<br />

was tar& h6nne. informal groups of young men with blunderbuss-type<br />

rifles went from house to house, The householder was expected to set up<br />

a target on a wooden board and give a prize of anything up to 20 KRs to<br />

the person shooting closest to the target. Raksi and cuha were also<br />

dispensed by the householder to the visitors. The prize money was

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