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Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais

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participants’ feelings about the ritual ceremony and their beliefs and values: (a) previous beliefs<br />

and (b) religious beliefs.<br />

Previous Beliefs<br />

Some <strong>of</strong> the participants indicated that the beliefs and values they held prior to joining the<br />

sorority had an impact on the sorority they chose to join and, further, on how that sorority<br />

continued to strengthen and reaffirm those beliefs. Further, they indicated a connection between<br />

the values that they held and the values that were expressed in the sorority ritual.<br />

Some participants stated that they joined their sorority not in order to develop their values<br />

but, rather, because they saw a place where their values could be expressed and supported. “I feel<br />

that I had a strong values base before I joined the sorority . . . I wasn’t looking for that.” Several<br />

<strong>of</strong> the participants did reference that the reason that they selected a particular sorority during the<br />

recruitment process was because they perceived that organization as “having women that<br />

represented the values and standards <strong>of</strong> that organization”:<br />

With my experience, ritual is an expression <strong>of</strong> my sorority’s values and what we stand for<br />

and these are the things that I hope that I carry into to everyday life and that is what drew<br />

me to my sorority. It was the clear values that the chapter showed and exemplified . . . I<br />

think that ritual touches your life more than people would think.<br />

For some <strong>of</strong> the participants, the sorority was a place to be able to stay true to their personal<br />

value system, not really to develop one. The participants indicated that values and beliefs are<br />

somehow connected to one’s understanding <strong>of</strong> the ritual, but not necessarily developed by the<br />

ritual.<br />

Several <strong>of</strong> the participants referred to their parents as creating the foundation for the<br />

beliefs and values that they brought with them into the sorority experience: “A lot <strong>of</strong> things are<br />

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