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Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais

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During new member education, you learn the Greek alphabet, what your colors mean,<br />

who your founders are and what date your sorority was founded, but you are not learning<br />

these morals and standards that your sorority is about and what your founders founded<br />

your sorority on. The initiation ceremony is where you really learn it all . . . it all ties into<br />

the same one solid principle that overrides throughout your sorority.<br />

Certain participants referenced the purpose <strong>of</strong> the ritual ceremony was to pass on the “tradition”<br />

and was the main reason why their sorority existed:<br />

the “future”:<br />

Without our rituals, our sororities don’t exist. Ritual is continuing what was started one<br />

hundred years ago and passing it onto the newer sisters.<br />

<strong>On</strong>e <strong>of</strong> the most interesting comments mentioned a tie between history as the “past” and<br />

Ritual was designed to make the sorority more meaningful and to help you to understand<br />

that what you are doing is important. Ritual is to pass on a sense <strong>of</strong> history with the<br />

group. Ritual is like a template <strong>of</strong> where to go in the future. It is taking where we have<br />

come from, where we are now and we are going.<br />

These references to ritual as “tradition” establishes the participants’ understanding that they<br />

participate in an experience that connects them to the past and to the future.<br />

Ritual as a Required Activity<br />

Several <strong>of</strong> the participants indicated that they saw the ritual ceremonies as another<br />

activity that was part <strong>of</strong> their sorority experience. The participants perceived the ritual<br />

ceremonies as an activity that they were required do in order to be considered an active member<br />

<strong>of</strong> the sorority. Some <strong>of</strong> the participants indicated that monetary penalties were imposed on<br />

members if they did not participate in ritual:<br />

Our rituals are mandatory so when you don’t come, you get fined. And I think that is why<br />

a lot <strong>of</strong> people feel like they have to be there and they don’t really want to be and they<br />

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