Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
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Women’s Development within the <strong>Sorority</strong> Experience<br />
The third major theme revolved around the participants’ perception <strong>of</strong> their personal<br />
development, as well as the development <strong>of</strong> others who were sharing the sorority experience. The<br />
perspective <strong>of</strong> the participants led to the identification <strong>of</strong> three components within this theme: (a)<br />
sorority women’s length <strong>of</strong> membership, (b) sorority women’s level <strong>of</strong> maturity, and (c) sorority<br />
women’s level <strong>of</strong> responsibility within the sorority.<br />
<strong>Sorority</strong> Women’s Length <strong>of</strong> Membership<br />
Many <strong>of</strong> the participants acknowledged a developmental change in themselves as well as<br />
other members during their years in the sorority. Some <strong>of</strong> the participants indicated that ritual<br />
ceremonies became more meaningful to them as the “grew up” in their sorority. The participants<br />
indicated that their perception <strong>of</strong> ritual was better understood as they developed within the<br />
sorority. A few <strong>of</strong> the participants conveyed feelings <strong>of</strong> disinterest in the ritual ceremonies as<br />
they developed either because they no longer felt connected to the sorority in general or because<br />
they did not see the relevance <strong>of</strong> the ritual ceremony in their lives any longer.<br />
Several <strong>of</strong> the women indicated that appreciation <strong>of</strong> ritual changed from their freshman<br />
year: “Through time, you appreciate ritual more every year. As a freshman, you don’t really<br />
appreciate it as much as you do as a senior.” Yet another said:<br />
When you are a freshman or when you first join the sorority, you appreciate the ritual<br />
because it is a beautiful ceremony, but as you get older, you start understanding it. You<br />
begin to understand ritual and then you have feelings and emotions about it and the more<br />
you understand it, the more you want to learn.<br />
Most <strong>of</strong> the women perceived ritual as something that changed as they grew in their sorority:<br />
It took me near the end <strong>of</strong> my freshman year to begin to ‘get it’. I am a junior and I am<br />
still realizing things about ritual and I am like, this is cool, I never realized that before . . .<br />
I am still learning every day…I see ritual like a stepping stone or a rite <strong>of</strong> passage into the<br />
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