Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
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Robson writes further:<br />
In a world characterized by casual acquaintance and fleeting contacts, the fraternity<br />
[sorority] nourishes the establishment <strong>of</strong> deep friendship and lasting brotherhood<br />
[sisterhood] to enrich one's life. It makes permanent contributions to personality growth<br />
and provides foundations to meet the challenges <strong>of</strong> a chaotic and dynamic society. The<br />
college fraternity [sorority] adopts the role <strong>of</strong> a family during the undergraduate years<br />
whether it be small school or large. Brotherhood [sisterhood] and friendship ties acquired<br />
in a college fraternity [sorority] last through the years long after graduation, surpassed by<br />
few other loyalties throughout life (p. 31).<br />
Robson's description is <strong>of</strong> the fraternity experience, yet can also be applied to sorority<br />
experiences as well. Although not from a pr<strong>of</strong>essional journal, the following is the best example<br />
that I could find to explain a modern day description <strong>of</strong> what it means to share a sorority<br />
experience, as expressed in the words <strong>of</strong> a member <strong>of</strong> Kappa Kappa Gamma:<br />
Our lives in Kappa all began differently. As a child you may have heard Kappa songs. As<br />
a young teenager perhaps an older sister talked about Kappa. Maybe you were on a<br />
college campus before you ever met a Kappa. However our stories began, what is really<br />
exciting is that part <strong>of</strong> your story is shared by every woman <strong>of</strong> Kappa Kappa Gamma, past<br />
and present. Our experiences differ, but despite chapter location, number <strong>of</strong> members,<br />
housing situations, and varied campus life, we do have a shared experience -- our Kappa<br />
ritual. We all participated in ritual saying the same words, wearing the same clothes and<br />
on a higher level, naming the same dreams and ideals we would seek in our lives. We<br />
claimed the value <strong>of</strong> friendship and the ideals <strong>of</strong> goodness, truth and beauty and then we<br />
endeavored together to seek the finest in life, thought, and character. This is when our<br />
Kappa stories became one (Strength, 2000, p. 6).<br />
Strength's portrayal <strong>of</strong> her sorority experience is based around the concept <strong>of</strong> ritual. This<br />
description, although different than Robson's, continues to present a theme <strong>of</strong> friendship,<br />
sisterhood, ritual, and lifetime commitment.<br />
The structure and intent <strong>of</strong> sororities is to provide an environment that enhances a<br />
woman's academic endeavors and her personal and social growth (Astin 1977, Wilder & Hoyt,<br />
1986; Pascarella, Flowers, & Whitt, 2001). In a study conducted by Pascarella, Edison, Whitt,<br />
Nora, Hagedorn, and Terenzini conducted in 1996 traced the cognitive impacts <strong>of</strong> Greek-<br />
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