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Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais

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as a whole. Do they make decisions that help them to be better women, better students, better<br />

citizens and does ritual as the basis for who they are as sorority women play a role, any role, a<br />

significant role in that process? Do our rituals have an affect on their behavior today? Are<br />

sorority women understanding our creeds, ritual, mottoes, etc. and are these having an impact in<br />

their daily lives?<br />

I believe that for some, ritual does not have a significant role in their experience because<br />

they were never taught the significance <strong>of</strong> the meaning--the performance is the primary focus. I<br />

do believe, however, that many <strong>of</strong> our women are "getting it" because they are being taught that<br />

ritual is what sets them apart from everyone else and that if ritual is used as a foundation for the<br />

decisions that they make as people and as a group, then the benefits <strong>of</strong> this impact will be greater<br />

than they could have ever imagined.<br />

My question is are we teaching them about our foundations? Are we leaving up to the<br />

chapter members to teach one another? I think that these are difficult questions but these<br />

questions may become at least part <strong>of</strong> the solution to some <strong>of</strong> the challenges that we are facing<br />

today. I do not in any way want to conduct research that will harm the sorority community--all <strong>of</strong><br />

us have to deal enough with outside people who wish to do that for us. I would like for this<br />

dissertation to matter--for something positive to come from this research. Maybe we do need to<br />

develop true programs that teach our women how to appreciate and apply ritual to their lives. I<br />

tell students wherever I am that if we all followed our ritual, we would not need risk management<br />

policies, hazing policies, insurance, etc. Fraternities and sororities would have waiting lists<br />

because so many people would want to join.<br />

I have also made it very clear to my committee during my general exam oral defense that<br />

I do not want to violate the secrecy <strong>of</strong> any group's ritual. I will provide a brief description <strong>of</strong><br />

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