Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
Sorority Rituals - Reflections On Rites of ... - Mari Ann Callais
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as a whole. Do they make decisions that help them to be better women, better students, better<br />
citizens and does ritual as the basis for who they are as sorority women play a role, any role, a<br />
significant role in that process? Do our rituals have an affect on their behavior today? Are<br />
sorority women understanding our creeds, ritual, mottoes, etc. and are these having an impact in<br />
their daily lives?<br />
I believe that for some, ritual does not have a significant role in their experience because<br />
they were never taught the significance <strong>of</strong> the meaning--the performance is the primary focus. I<br />
do believe, however, that many <strong>of</strong> our women are "getting it" because they are being taught that<br />
ritual is what sets them apart from everyone else and that if ritual is used as a foundation for the<br />
decisions that they make as people and as a group, then the benefits <strong>of</strong> this impact will be greater<br />
than they could have ever imagined.<br />
My question is are we teaching them about our foundations? Are we leaving up to the<br />
chapter members to teach one another? I think that these are difficult questions but these<br />
questions may become at least part <strong>of</strong> the solution to some <strong>of</strong> the challenges that we are facing<br />
today. I do not in any way want to conduct research that will harm the sorority community--all <strong>of</strong><br />
us have to deal enough with outside people who wish to do that for us. I would like for this<br />
dissertation to matter--for something positive to come from this research. Maybe we do need to<br />
develop true programs that teach our women how to appreciate and apply ritual to their lives. I<br />
tell students wherever I am that if we all followed our ritual, we would not need risk management<br />
policies, hazing policies, insurance, etc. Fraternities and sororities would have waiting lists<br />
because so many people would want to join.<br />
I have also made it very clear to my committee during my general exam oral defense that<br />
I do not want to violate the secrecy <strong>of</strong> any group's ritual. I will provide a brief description <strong>of</strong><br />
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