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and affection. There is no doubt that immaterial things and feelings am<br />

difficult to equate. That is why, the Prophet Muhammad <strong>of</strong>ten said:<br />

"Lord, I do full justice in what lies in my power, but forgive me that<br />

which is beyond my control. "' 1 Allah is aware <strong>of</strong> that. Accordingly,<br />

when He put the condition <strong>of</strong> - equality. He knew such a condition is<br />

impossible to fulfill even if the human being endeavours to fulfill<br />

it as the Qurlan makes it clear in this verse.<br />

"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between<br />

women, even if it is your ardent-ý desire. " 2<br />

Accordingly, a husband who fears that he will not be able to treat<br />

his wives with equality must not have more than one wife. As the<br />

Qurlan stresses that:<br />

"But if ye fear that ye shall not, be ableL to deal<br />

Justly ( with them ) therr only one. "<br />

"Ye. are never-able to be fair and just as between<br />

womeno"3<br />

Islam does not permit a husband to show more love and care to one<br />

<strong>of</strong> his wives than the others, leaving them in a situation where they<br />

are formally married, but, in actuality, as if they are not. As the<br />

Qurlan says:<br />

"But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to<br />

leave her, (as it were) hanging (in the air). " 4<br />

Polygamy. it should be realised, is not an obligation on any Muslim.<br />

It Is permitted as a licence only if there are certain special<br />

circumstances that make it necessary for a man to have more than one<br />

wife. Some <strong>of</strong> these circumstances might be social while others might<br />

be individual'. or personal.<br />

Social Pressures<br />

X -, -<br />

1., -For instance, when a country fights many wars. this results in -<br />

a. considerable paucity <strong>of</strong> men'which may be-due to the fact that many<br />

1. See Salip, Sugds op. cit., P. 127<br />

2. Q. 4: 129<br />

3. Q. 49 39 129*<br />

4. Q. 4,129<br />

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