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the two partners. So, it is possible that a couple may resume their<br />

normal life and forget their conflict after<br />

I passing this difficult<br />

C''<br />

time. There is a tradition that Ibn Umar reported, he divorced his<br />

wife while she was menstruating during the life time <strong>of</strong> the Prophet.<br />

Where - upon. Allah's Messenger said. "Command him to take her back<br />

(and keep her) and pronounce divorce when she is purified and she again<br />

enters the period <strong>of</strong> menstruation and she is again purified (after<br />

passing the period <strong>of</strong> menses), and then if he so desires, he may keer<br />

her and if he desires, divorce her (finally) before touching her<br />

(without having intercourse with her), for that is the period <strong>of</strong><br />

waiting (idda) which God (Exalted and Glorious be He 1) has<br />

commanded for the divorce <strong>of</strong> a woman.<br />

The husband must not divorce his wife while she is in purity<br />

immediately after menstruation has finished) if he approached her,<br />

but he must wait and keep his wife until she has menstruated, completes<br />

it without any intercourse and goes through a secondly monthly period<br />

to a second state <strong>of</strong> purity. At this stage, if no change <strong>of</strong> heart or<br />

mind has taken place, a divorce may be pronounced.<br />

e,<br />

Idda - The Waiting Perkod<br />

When the husband divorces his wife after menstruation without<br />

approaching her, the wife must wait for three months as the Qurlan<br />

confirms that in this verse:<br />

IlProphet, when ye do divorce women, divorce them at<br />

their prescribed period, apd count (acurately) their<br />

prescribed period. " 34<br />

Islam preserves the rights <strong>of</strong> the divorced woman during Idda,<br />

for example. she can still stay in the marital home during thfis period<br />

it was mentioned. One <strong>of</strong> the ideas behind the probationary period<br />

1., Sahih al Bukhari,, op. cit.. Vol. 7. P. 130 and Sahih Muslim, Vol 2. P. 755<br />

2'ý See' Abd cu! Aý;, op. cit., P. 228<br />

3. - Q. 65,1<br />

-2<br />

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