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up the principle which is in accordance with the human nature and the<br />

nature <strong>of</strong> the marital Institutian6"<br />

It is sometimes asserted that polygamy involves humiliation for<br />

the woman and depriv as her <strong>of</strong> the right <strong>of</strong> equality with men. For<br />

example, why should not women be given the right to polyandry ?<br />

However, giving women the right to polyandry is inconsistent with<br />

Islamic social systems. Blood bonds and lineage are serious matters.<br />

whom will be the children <strong>of</strong> a polyandrous woman belong to as a<br />

father? Will they belong to four fathers ? Or. will they just belong<br />

to their mother'? Who will be responsible for the children and for<br />

ýthe family ? Will it be the wife or the four husbands altogether ?<br />

-All such suggestions would be unacceptable. Polyandry cannot be<br />

accepted especially in a patriarchal Society where blood and lineage<br />

are considered ritual. Polygamy on the other hand does not involve<br />

such complications nor does it involve ignoring the woman's rights.<br />

As mentioned above, Islam does not force a woman to get maried without<br />

her own consent. On the contrary, Islam gives a woman the' absolute<br />

freedom to accept or reject an <strong>of</strong>er <strong>of</strong> marriage.<br />

1<br />

It should be noted that in the final analysis. it is entirely by her<br />

own 'Choice that a woman marries a man already married and a polygamous<br />

ý,<br />

ýi fe still has the choice that if she feels that she cannot be ar life<br />

ýwith her husband, or is unwilling to live with him. to seek a divorce<br />

from'herhusband. As"the Qurlan says:<br />

"if ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be<br />

unable to keep the limits ordained by God. there<br />

In no blame on either <strong>of</strong> them if she gives<br />

something for her freedom, "<br />

Finally, as J. L. said about polygamy. "It is a good system<br />

that improves the moral standard <strong>of</strong> the nations that adopt it. It<br />

also' strengthens the family unity and gives the woman more respect<br />

and'. ha ppiness.<br />

1. Ibid<br />

2. Q2 2A<br />

3. ai-SNi. op. cit., P. 78<br />

3<br />

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