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up the principle which is in accordance with the human nature and the<br />
nature <strong>of</strong> the marital Institutian6"<br />
It is sometimes asserted that polygamy involves humiliation for<br />
the woman and depriv as her <strong>of</strong> the right <strong>of</strong> equality with men. For<br />
example, why should not women be given the right to polyandry ?<br />
However, giving women the right to polyandry is inconsistent with<br />
Islamic social systems. Blood bonds and lineage are serious matters.<br />
whom will be the children <strong>of</strong> a polyandrous woman belong to as a<br />
father? Will they belong to four fathers ? Or. will they just belong<br />
to their mother'? Who will be responsible for the children and for<br />
ýthe family ? Will it be the wife or the four husbands altogether ?<br />
-All such suggestions would be unacceptable. Polyandry cannot be<br />
accepted especially in a patriarchal Society where blood and lineage<br />
are considered ritual. Polygamy on the other hand does not involve<br />
such complications nor does it involve ignoring the woman's rights.<br />
As mentioned above, Islam does not force a woman to get maried without<br />
her own consent. On the contrary, Islam gives a woman the' absolute<br />
freedom to accept or reject an <strong>of</strong>er <strong>of</strong> marriage.<br />
1<br />
It should be noted that in the final analysis. it is entirely by her<br />
own 'Choice that a woman marries a man already married and a polygamous<br />
ý,<br />
ýi fe still has the choice that if she feels that she cannot be ar life<br />
ýwith her husband, or is unwilling to live with him. to seek a divorce<br />
from'herhusband. As"the Qurlan says:<br />
"if ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be<br />
unable to keep the limits ordained by God. there<br />
In no blame on either <strong>of</strong> them if she gives<br />
something for her freedom, "<br />
Finally, as J. L. said about polygamy. "It is a good system<br />
that improves the moral standard <strong>of</strong> the nations that adopt it. It<br />
also' strengthens the family unity and gives the woman more respect<br />
and'. ha ppiness.<br />
1. Ibid<br />
2. Q2 2A<br />
3. ai-SNi. op. cit., P. 78<br />
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