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, without<br />

, paying it. If a man divorce his wife before their marriage<br />

is consummated, then the man is entitled to half <strong>of</strong> the dowry <strong>of</strong> his<br />

divorced wife. But if the divorce happens after consummation, then<br />

the husband will not be entitled to any <strong>of</strong> his wife's dowry. However,<br />

if a woman requests divorce and the husband divorces her in response<br />

to that request, then the husband will be entitled to all dowry, (as<br />

will be discussed later in detail. )<br />

any-society.<br />

Islam considers the family to be the most fundamental unit in<br />

, Therefore, it laid down rules to keep this unit strong<br />

and healthy. To protect the structure <strong>of</strong> the family, Islam allocated<br />

duties and rights to the major components <strong>of</strong> this unit, the family<br />

members: husband. wife and their <strong>of</strong>fspring. Every member has the<br />

rights and duties towards the other members and also towards the<br />

family itself. Islam has also defined the rights <strong>of</strong> women and the duties<br />

<strong>of</strong> men according to their biological nature. The huaband's duties<br />

assume that the wife has certain rights.<br />

The role <strong>of</strong> the husband revolves around the principle that it is<br />

his major duty to treat his wife with kindness, compassion. and patience<br />

and- to cause her no harm or grief. As the Qurlan emphasises in this<br />

výrpe:<br />

"Live with them (i. e. a woman) on a footing <strong>of</strong> kindness<br />

and equity. If ye take a dislike to them, it may be<br />

that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through<br />

it a great deal <strong>of</strong> good. " 1<br />

in the tradition <strong>of</strong> the Prophet, 'Asha<br />

reported Allah's Messenger<br />

2<br />

as saying: "The best is he who is best to his family. " (i. e. The<br />

p'ropht's family life is an example to his followers <strong>of</strong> this principle.<br />

The Prophet advised men to win woman's heart by good treatment. A<br />

hýsband'should not hate his wife for one trait in her, as there may be<br />

other good attributes in her as well. The Qurlan refers to this in the<br />

1. Q. 4,19<br />

2, Tirmidhl"quoted by Imran Muhammad, Ideal Woman in Islam<br />

, P. 29<br />

94

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