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to be divorced just because she gave birth to girls only ?I Family<br />

presure might also be brought to bear; many husbands had made<br />

divorce a means for harming wives. embezzling their money and forcing<br />

them to give up their rights.<br />

A husband could divorce his wife and get married to her again<br />

many times. It had been reported that a man from al-Anýgri. when he<br />

became angry with his wife, said to her: "I will not treat you as<br />

the husband treats his wife. and at the same time, I will not let<br />

you go away. " The wife asked. "How? " The man said. "I will divorce<br />

you, and as the interim period for divorce comes to an end. I will<br />

remarry you again, and I will keep on doing that. " And he had done<br />

that many times in order to embarrass her.<br />

1 So divorce was an<br />

easy matter, a woman was just like a puppet in her husband's hands.<br />

He could play with her feelings, humiliate her. and divorce and<br />

remarry her whenever he liked without her being able to defend herself<br />

/ and her life. And even more than that, 'before Islam, a husband could<br />

prevent his divorced wife from remarrying. and could drive a bargain<br />

for his consent to the application <strong>of</strong> a suitor. ' 2<br />

When divorce took place, he secured her agreement written and<br />

endorsed by witnesses. When she had an <strong>of</strong>fer <strong>of</strong> marriage from another<br />

man, she had to pay her ex-husband. and get this agreement for her to<br />

3<br />

marry another ma4, otherwise he could prevent her. This reflected<br />

the position <strong>of</strong> woman generally in the Peninsula in pre-Islamic, times.<br />

Although divorce and remarriage to the same woman was unlimited<br />

in some tribes as already seen. in Mecca and perhaps elsewhere. the<br />

husband could divorce his wife only three times. An account <strong>of</strong> this<br />

kind <strong>of</strong> divorce is related <strong>of</strong> Ismal 11 bin Ibrahim.<br />

1- ýAll, Vol. 5, P*5509<br />

2. Smith, OP- Cit-@ P- 115<br />

3. Ibid.<br />

4. See'All, Vol. 5, P. 550<br />

4<br />

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