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himself, simply confirmed her and kept her from marrying,<br />

I The Qurlan<br />

forbade all that. "Ye who believe. ye are forbidden to inherit women<br />

againstýtheir will. Nor should ye treat with harshness, that ye may<br />

take away part <strong>of</strong> the dowry ye have given them. 2 That custom shows<br />

the harsh oppression which the woman suffered from in Jahiliyyah.<br />

There is evidence to indicate that this kind <strong>of</strong> marriage was widespread<br />

for instance, "Amina, mother <strong>of</strong> Abu Mulayyit. was married first to<br />

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Omayyah ibn 'Abd Slýams, and then to his son Abu Amr. and N<strong>of</strong>ayl.<br />

c<br />

grandfather <strong>of</strong> Caliph Umar. left a Fahmite widow who was married by his<br />

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son. Amr.<br />

Islam's prohibition <strong>of</strong> this kind <strong>of</strong> marriage was first issued to<br />

"Kabsha, -wife <strong>of</strong> Abu Qays, who went to the prophet and told him that<br />

Abu Qaya had died and his son, who was the best <strong>of</strong> men. suited her. "<br />

The prophet kept quiet, and then *. this. -.. verse was revealed to him: 4-<br />

"And marry not women whom your fathers married,<br />

except what is past. It was shameful and odious,<br />

an abominable custom indeed. " 5<br />

Somewhat similarly. Islam discouraged simultaneous marriage-to<br />

sisters. When Kharash al-RelayyAj. who was. -married to two-sisters,<br />

became a Muslim. the prophet asked him to choose one <strong>of</strong> them only to<br />

be his wife.<br />

6<br />

4, al-Shigt;; r Marriage: This was a type <strong>of</strong> marriage in which men<br />

exchanged their daughters or sisters in marriage without paying -<br />

dowry. 7<br />

Its widespread practise amongst the poorer classes might be<br />

1. Smith. op. cit., P. 106<br />

2. Q6 4: 19<br />

3.<br />

- See Smith. op. cit.. P. 106<br />

4. al-Shafi! r, al-Siraý al Ualablyyah. P. 44<br />

5. Q, 4: 22<br />

6, Ibn KathTr, Vol* 1, P. 373<br />

7. Sahih al-Bukhari. Vol. 7, P. 35<br />

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