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The marriage was effected through the mediation of Khadijah's
friend Nafrsa, who recommended her beauty and qualities. Muhammad
considered the proposition, sought advice from his uncles and
finally requested that they ask for her hand. On marrying her,
he gave her a dowry of 20 Bakrah,
1
Khadijah was Muhammad's first wife. The extent of her influence
upon him is indicated by his not re-marrying until after her death.
Drawing upon her broad experience and maturity she was able to
support him during stressful times;
. she created a tranquil atmosphere
for his contemplation. She showed compassion and understanding of
all he had to undergo; she never complained when he went to Uiriaola
to worship God, or when he spent most of his time contemplating
the universe., She was a source of encouragement to him and sent
someone to watch over him whenever she felt apprehensive on his
behalf. Her brilliant mind and powers of reasoning enabled her to
fulfil a. very demanding role.
When Muhammad received the revelation through the angel Jibril.
that he had been chosen by God as the last Prophet to be a Messenger
to the people to save them from the wrong path, she trusted him
without reservation. She said, 'AbZ; al-rasim, God protect us, prove
your identity to my cousin. (Swear to God) in whose hands is my soul.
I hope that you will become the Prophet of this nation. God will
never discredit you. You bring people together, you speak the
truth, support all others, defend the weak. and assist. -those who
speak the truth. ,2
1. Ibid
2. Ibid. P. 227
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