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counterparts. Fur<strong>the</strong>r research in this area would be <strong>of</strong> great value to <strong>the</strong><br />

church and <strong>the</strong>ological community in Africa.<br />

2.3.4 How many years have you been in ministry?<br />

22B5q: 6-10<br />

23B3w: 6-10<br />

34D5p: Over 21<br />

12B1s : 11-15<br />

22B3q: 16-20<br />

23C2y: Less than 5<br />

12B5t: 11-15<br />

44D3w: Less than 5<br />

12B4z: 6-10<br />

22B4w: Over 21<br />

On average, most <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> wives had up to 10 years experience in<br />

ministry. Interestingly, just over half <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> wives indicated <strong>the</strong>y were in fulltime<br />

ministry. All wives indicated that <strong>the</strong>y were involved in ministry, ei<strong>the</strong>r<br />

part-time or full-time, even if <strong>the</strong>y were not fulfilling a certain task within <strong>the</strong><br />

church.<br />

Years <strong>of</strong> experience became a very important question in<br />

understanding <strong>the</strong> stages at which a <strong>wife</strong> found herself. Wives with less<br />

ministry experience seemed to struggle with perceptions <strong>of</strong> congregational<br />

members whilst <strong>the</strong> more experienced wives had learned to become more<br />

confident and sure <strong>of</strong> who <strong>the</strong>y were, being realistic and understanding <strong>of</strong><br />

congregational expectations.<br />

Wives varied in relation to age and years <strong>of</strong> service; <strong>the</strong>y also differed<br />

in stages <strong>of</strong> life, whe<strong>the</strong>r a new mo<strong>the</strong>r, mo<strong>the</strong>r or grandmo<strong>the</strong>r. Mo<strong>the</strong>rs with<br />

young children <strong>of</strong>ten expressed a need for more privacy and family time,<br />

whilst mo<strong>the</strong>rs with older children or children who had left home expressed a<br />

desire to spend more quality time with <strong>the</strong>ir husbands.<br />

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