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ecause certain things are left undone and I have no time to take care <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>m. My husband loves being home and with <strong>the</strong> family and for that I am<br />

very grateful.<br />

23C2y: TIME! I need to learn to manage my time effectively to meet <strong>the</strong> many<br />

daily needs – in all areas <strong>of</strong> my life. I try to keep a balance between <strong>the</strong><br />

spiritual and fun so that I am not too wrapped up in one or <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r. I’ve<br />

learned not to feel guilty when I cannot attend a church function or do<br />

something in/for <strong>the</strong> church.<br />

12B5t: I need quality time with my husband. <strong>The</strong> church work tends to take up<br />

all <strong>of</strong> his time day and night (with different meetings) and <strong>of</strong>ten on days <strong>of</strong>f<br />

too. I have <strong>the</strong> challenge <strong>of</strong> being a new mo<strong>the</strong>r at 38 years old and have had<br />

to reorganise home-life and work-life. I have yet to really find my calling within<br />

<strong>the</strong> church, some ministry or work that God wants me to be involved in. I am<br />

considering teaching a young ladies group but at <strong>the</strong> moment I am just<br />

focusing on learning to be a mo<strong>the</strong>r and <strong>wife</strong>.<br />

44D3w: <strong>The</strong>re are no needs within my church life, <strong>the</strong> church is very<br />

supportive and accepting and I am not limited, restricted or expected to do<br />

anything within <strong>the</strong> church community. I need private time with my<br />

husband/family, as <strong>the</strong>re are <strong>of</strong>ten interruptions. Personally, I could use a<br />

close friend, o<strong>the</strong>r than my husband, to share things with and confide in.<br />

I make time for <strong>the</strong> Lord and <strong>the</strong> development <strong>of</strong> my spiritual life which is<br />

important to me. I really enjoy that time.<br />

12B4z: With regard to my church life I need to be more mission minded/get<br />

out <strong>of</strong> my comfort zone. My home life is good but could use a little more<br />

money for <strong>the</strong> extra things (but very content!). Personally, I need more time to<br />

relax and have time out; my kids keep me very busy. I also need more time to<br />

study God’s Word.<br />

22B4w: I don’t have any needs in my church life. I enjoy <strong>the</strong> care and support<br />

received from my cell group and I enjoy attending <strong>the</strong> services. I would love<br />

more time at home and with husband. I would also love more quiet time to<br />

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