I'm Still Human: Understanding Depression With Kindness (Expanded Edition - 2021)

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• 7. Don’t be over-protective. They need to be trusted that they arecapable of doing things on their own with support. Sometimes wealso need to be firm with them for their own good, e.g. insisting thatthey should stop abusing drugs (e.g. cannabis), compliance withmedications, clinic follow-ups and daily exercise.• 8. Give them equal opportunity for employment when they arewell. Allow them to take leave just like any other illness when theyneed to take time off for clinic follow-ups.• 9. Forgive them if they are sometimes impatient, unreasonableor even hostile. They are sick and in pain; may sometimes behavelike an injured scorpion that stings those who help them. The factthat they reveal their unpleasant side to you may mean that theyactually trust you enough. Be grateful that you are the ‘chosen one’–willing to endure with compassion.• 10. When they are not ready to be helped, empathetically leavethem alone for the time being. I know that it’s helplessly painful‘doing nothing.’ Bear in mind, most likely, they are aware that youcare, but they are not ready to seek help yet. They need more timeto accept the reality of depression; acceptance is a process, not anon-off switch. Be kind to them by being patient and not rejectingthem.109
• 11. Repeatedly assure them in words that you love, care andrespect them unconditionally. It’s not they don’t trust you; theyactually don’t trust and probably hate themselves – depression hasdamaged their self-confidence and self-worth.There was never a night or a problemthat could defeat sunrise or hope- Bern Williams -• 12. Be kind and supportive through non-verbal expressions:a friendly smile, a hug, offer tissue papers for crying, a pat on theshoulder as encouragement.110
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I’M STILL HUMANUnderstanding Depr
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ReminderThis is a book on mental he
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come forward and seek help. In this
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ContentForewordDedicationPrefacePAR
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PART 4: Jasmine’s journey of reco
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forgive themselves and others by pr
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The book suggests that depression i
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PrefaceI wrote this book with Jasmi
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What is depression?Depression is a
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What depression is NOT!• It’s N
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6. Moving or speaking so slowly tha
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People who are depressed also often
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• More likely to appear in the fo
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Depression and suicideIf I had no s
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What should I do if I or somebodyha
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“I know that you’re going throu
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• Have psychosis, e.g. hear invis
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• Registered counselor: a person
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In government hospitals, you may be
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* Private psychiatric services in M
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3. Register yourself for the servic
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• 3. Share with them that there a
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consultation and medication fee in
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• 5. Help you to identify the fac
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Kindly be reminded:1. Be open and h
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What is the cause of depression?“
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Understanding the various R.T.M. fa
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When we are in a situation with sim
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The most commonly prescribed class
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sleep hygiene (page 128), contempla
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Come on,Follow me IN…45
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~ Introduction ~I’m an introvert
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~ Hopeless ~My life is like a withe
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~ Useless ~This is my healing diary
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~ Guilt ~Very often, I’m not a go
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~ Burden ~I always feel like a huge
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~ Weak ~One of the main reasons why
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Page 82 and 83: ~ My Struggle with Medicines ~No ma
Page 84 and 85: ~ Electro-convulsive Therapy (ECT)
Page 86 and 87: ~ Not My True Self ~“Trust me, Ja
Page 88 and 89: ~ The Story of a Pothole ~This is a
Page 90 and 91: the pothole that had taught her man
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Page 96 and 97: ~ Let’s Be Friends ~Dear Depressi
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Page 100 and 101: I got to be honest and admit that m
Page 102 and 103: Come on,let’s follow me OUT…str
Page 104 and 105: Hello, welcome back from the realm
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Page 108 and 109: Yes, they are indeed very strong. I
Page 110 and 111: • Remember that God is loving and
Page 112 and 113: minute and then asked his grandfath
Page 114 and 115: 5. COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS:Yeahoo, lif
Page 116 and 117: • Be grateful that you managed to
Page 118 and 119: Depression is associated with lack
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Page 130 and 131: 4. False acceptance of illness. Som
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In short, kindness, friendship, lis
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It is so inspiring to see several m
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it tends automatically to ruminate
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‘normal’ (part and parcel of li
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PART 4Jasmine’s Journeyof Recover
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1. A Journey Of Recovery2. OMG - It
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OMG - It’s Never EasyThe journey
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It’s Scary - Panic Attacks!Due to
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Don't Delay - Seek Proper Treatment
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Trust Me -Medicine Is Very Importan
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Have I Recovered?On many occasions,
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Small Is Beautiful - Set Small Goal
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fight with the feelings but befrien
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It’s OK Not To Be OkayLow self-es
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Gyming The Mind & BodyI try to main
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Adjust: I adjust the way I perceive
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What I can I do now? Instead of was
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event's memories are still there bu
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Be Grateful To Be HappyLife with de
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Don’t Give Up, Be Hopey!The tips,
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After rain there’s a rainbow,Afte
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DONATIONThe publication of this boo
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About the authorDr. Phang Cheng Kar
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