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I'm Still Human: Understanding Depression With Kindness (Expanded Edition - 2021)

A compassionate guide for those coping with or caring for someone with depression...

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3. Breath as emotional anchor: Mindfulness of breathing involves

repeatedly bringing gentle awareness to our breathing, “Breathing

in, I’m aware than I’m breathing in. Breathing out, I’m aware that

I’m breathing out.” This trains the mind to be less scattered and

more present or calm, which is very useful during emotional storms

Breathing is a useful mindfulness ‘tool’ as it’s with us wherever we

go (we can’t go anywhere without it).

4. Body scan and awareness: It involves repeatedly bringing

gentle awareness to the physical sensations (e.g. heat, tightness,

tiredness, pain) in different parts of the body (e.g. chest, neck, head,

hands, legs, stomach, back), and noting them with kindness,

acceptance, and a sense of curiosity (beginner’s mind). This is

useful in several ways: 1. It helps to disentangle ourselves from our

thoughts; won’t be so easily sucked into the drama of negative

thoughts. 2. It breaks the conditioned link between body sensations

and thinking (e.g. feeling physically tired which triggers negative

memories). 3. It helps us to be more aware of our ‘thinking-feeling’

as body sensations are mirror to our thoughts and emotions – sort

of a natural bio-feedback device.

5. Mindful awareness of thoughts: In recurrent depression, the

problem is usually not so much of the sadness which is brief and

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