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eturn to his suffering brothers and bear their burdens and sorrows with a Christ-like<br />

mercy born of genuine empathy.<br />

Of particular importance for the cultivation of this compassionate fraternal charity<br />

is the monk’s capacity to enter into and experience as his own his brother’s miseria or<br />

sinfulness and weakness. This for Bernard explains why the monk must first perceive the<br />

Truth in himself before he is able to perceive it in his brothers. Exploiting the etymology<br />

of the Latin word misericordia, the abbot teaches that those who would have true mercy<br />

towards the miseria in their brother’s heart must first have experienced the miseria in<br />

their own. Only once they have honestly acknowledged the truth of their sinfulness and<br />

weakness, how easily they are tempted and how prone they are to sin, can they recognize<br />

this same sinfulness and weakness in their brothers’ hearts and so love them with true<br />

understanding and mercy:<br />

Just as pure truth is perceived only by a pure heart, so a brother’s<br />

misery is more truly felt by a miserable heart. Yet if you are to<br />

have a heart merciful towards another’s misery, you must first<br />

recognize your own misery, that you might find your neighbor’s<br />

mind in your own, and from your own experience learn how to<br />

help him. 157<br />

Only when the monk has first been humbled and made meek by the acknowledgement<br />

and confession of his own sinfulness and weakness can he truly recognize and feel that<br />

same sinfulness and weakness in his brother and so learn to bear his brother’s sins and<br />

failures with the same spirit of gentle, patient mercy that he would expect of his brother<br />

157 Hum 6 (III, 21): “Sicut enim pura veritas non nisi puro corde videtur, sic miseria fratris verius<br />

misero corde sentitur. Sed ob alienam miseriam cor miserum habeas, oportet tuam prius agnoscas, ut<br />

proximi mentem in tua invenias, et ex te noveris qualiter illi subvenias.”<br />

104

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