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MY BELOVED IS MINE AND I AM HIS: SELF-KNOWLEDGE IN THE ...

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own, and from your own experience learn how to help him.” 329 Yet, to know our own<br />

miseria, we must first engage in the difficult work of self-knowledge, honestly<br />

acknowledging the humbling truth of our own sinfulness and weakness that we might<br />

learn to see and to have mercy on that same sinfulness and weakness in others.<br />

For Bernard, only this humbling recognition of our own sufferings will allow us<br />

to treat others with forgiveness, understanding, gentleness, and genuinely compassionate<br />

love. As long as we remain insensitive to, or self-deceived to, the truth of our own<br />

fallenness, we will be far more inclined, Bernard suggests, to treat others with thoughtless<br />

insensitivity, prideful scorn, and hard-hearted contempt. As we saw in Chapter 2,<br />

Bernard shows through his narration of the twelve steps of pride how the monk who lacks<br />

true self-knowledge born of humble self-judgment will, by degrees, come to regard his<br />

fellows first as contemptible inferiors to be valued only insofar as they sing his praises,<br />

then as subjects for his rapacious libido dominandi, and, finally, as mere objects for the<br />

satisfaction of his fleshly lusts.<br />

Though the task of true self-knowledge and genuine compassion for one’s<br />

brothers is by no means always easy or pleasant, it is, Bernard suggests, the only true way<br />

to ascend to God. The momentary, but ultimately specious, sense of self-inflated<br />

superiority the monk may find in scorning his brothers as inferiors may feel like a sort of<br />

an ascent, and even a sort of divinity, but it is, in truth, a descent, for it makes the monk<br />

proud and self-willed, less like the Word Incarnate, and so far from the likeness of God.<br />

If, on the other hand, the monk embraces the way of humility and compassion, he begins<br />

329 Hum 6 (III, 21): “Sicut enim pura veritas non nisi puro corde videtur, sic miseria fratris verius<br />

misero corde sentitur. Sed ob alienam miseriam cor miserum habeas, oportet tuam prius agnoscas, ut<br />

proximi mentem in tua invenias, et ex te noveris qualiter illi subvenias.”<br />

216

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