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Testimonies for the Church Volume 1 - A New You Ministry

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egin to talk unbelief in regard to some scriptures, claiming that <strong>the</strong>y cause <strong>the</strong>m todoubt <strong>the</strong> inspiration of <strong>the</strong> Bible, we should be afraid of <strong>the</strong>m, <strong>for</strong> God is at a greatdistance from <strong>the</strong>m.*****Chap. 72 - Parents and ChildrenI have been shown that while parents who have <strong>the</strong> fear of God be<strong>for</strong>e <strong>the</strong>m restrain<strong>the</strong>ir children, <strong>the</strong>y should study <strong>the</strong>ir dispositions and temperaments, and seek to meet<strong>the</strong>ir wants. Some parents attend carefully to <strong>the</strong> temporal wants of <strong>the</strong>ir children;<strong>the</strong>y kindly and faithfully nurse <strong>the</strong>m in sickness, and <strong>the</strong>n think <strong>the</strong>ir duty done. Here<strong>the</strong>y mistake. Their work has but just begun. The wants of <strong>the</strong> mind should be cared<strong>for</strong>. It requires skill to apply <strong>the</strong> proper remedies to cure a wounded mind. Childrenhave trials just as hard to bear, just as grievous in character, as those of older persons.Parents <strong>the</strong>mselves do not feel <strong>the</strong> same at all times. Their minds are often perplexed.They labor under mistaken views and feelings. Satan buffets <strong>the</strong>m, and <strong>the</strong>y yield tohis temptations. They speak irritably, and in a manner to excite wrath in <strong>the</strong>ir children,and are sometimes exacting and fretful. The poor children partake of <strong>the</strong> same spirit,and <strong>the</strong> parents are not prepared to help <strong>the</strong>m, <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong>y were <strong>the</strong> cause of <strong>the</strong> trouble.Sometimes everything seems to go wrong. There is fretfulness all around, and all havea very miserable, unhappy time. The parents lay <strong>the</strong> blame upon <strong>the</strong>ir poor childrenand think <strong>the</strong>m very disobedient and unruly, <strong>the</strong> worst children in <strong>the</strong> world, when <strong>the</strong>cause of <strong>the</strong> disturbance is in <strong>the</strong>mselves.Some parents raise many a storm by <strong>the</strong>ir lack of self-control. Instead of kindlyasking <strong>the</strong> children to do this or that, <strong>the</strong>y order <strong>the</strong>m in a scolding tone, and at <strong>the</strong>same time a384

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