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A boy goes to school <strong>and</strong> a girl does<br />

problem:<br />

not go to school<br />

Dinking husb<strong>and</strong><br />

(right to education, right to <strong>equality</strong>) (picture No. 23)<br />

(picture No. 22)<br />

Exercise<br />

Step 1<br />

• Tell the following story to the participants<br />

Story of Ratha (you can change the name to one common in the area)<br />

Ratha is 28 years old <strong>and</strong> married to Sao. They live in a village <strong>and</strong> own a small house.<br />

They have 3 children: 2 boys <strong>and</strong> a girl. The eldest son goes to school but the daughter<br />

stays home to help with household work, the work on the fields <strong>and</strong> she often looks after<br />

the baby son. The daughter is 8 years old. They would have enough money to send<br />

Ratha’s daughter to school too but Sao uses a large share of the money for gambling <strong>and</strong><br />

drinking. He often comes home very drunk <strong>and</strong> is not able to work on the fields early in the<br />

morning. When Ratha complains about it he beats her <strong>and</strong> one time he beat her so hard<br />

that she hurt her arm very seriously. She was not allowed to go to a doctor.<br />

Sao talked to an agent who promised to employ his daughter at a factory in the nearby<br />

town, <strong>and</strong> she starts to work there. When Ratha complains about it Sao becomes angry<br />

<strong>and</strong> beats her again. So Ratha keeps quiet but she really wants her daughter to go to<br />

school <strong>and</strong> not work in the factory.<br />

One of Ratha’s friends is member of a <strong>women</strong>’s saving group <strong>and</strong> she asks Ratha to join as<br />

well. Ratha discusses it with Sao. He says that he does not allow her because she has to<br />

do the work in the fields <strong>and</strong> in the house.<br />

The same friend says that she should go somewhere for help because Sao is beating her<br />

<strong>and</strong> Ratha does not look happy. But Ratha does not know where to go.<br />

Step 2<br />

• Ask the participants what kind of problems Ratha faces. When they bring up an issue as drawn<br />

on a card, show it <strong>and</strong> display it on the ground or wall.<br />

• If the participants do not come up with more issues <strong>and</strong> you still have some cards left, show<br />

these cards to them <strong>and</strong> ask whether they think Ratha is facing this problem. Discuss all<br />

problems briefly.<br />

Step 3<br />

• Ask the participants which problems are violations of the law.<br />

• Put the cards with the issues they mention at the right side.<br />

• If there are issues left, explain that these are also violations of the law.<br />

• Only one card stays at the left side: the problem of the drinking husb<strong>and</strong>. Explain that this is a<br />

problem you have to solve yourself or with the help of family or friends. There are no laws to<br />

protect you against a drinking husb<strong>and</strong>.<br />

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