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188 SNAKES IN SUITS<br />

terests them at any given moment and then weave it into the story<br />

they tell others. Should something else more exciting come along—<br />

a new job or a new love interest—they will move quickly toward the<br />

new opportunity, a tendency that can make them look somewhat<br />

impulsive and irresponsible to observers. While they may blow up at<br />

coworkers, flying into a rage and then calming down just as quickly<br />

(as if nothing has happened), they can also control their anger if it<br />

is in their best interest to do so—saving their vindictiveness for a<br />

later time.<br />

Another group of psychopaths is much more aggressive. This<br />

group, the corporate bullies, seems to reflect many of the traits of the<br />

macho psychopath: they are primarily abusive rather than charming.<br />

Bullies are not as sophisticated or as smooth as the manipulative<br />

type, as they rely on coercion, abuse, humiliation, harassment, aggression,<br />

and fear to get their way. They are callous to almost everyone,<br />

intentionally finding reasons to engage in conflict, to blame<br />

others for things that go wrong, to attack others unfairly (in private<br />

and in public) and to be generally antagonistic. They routinely disregard<br />

the rights and feelings of others and frequently violate traditional<br />

norms of appropriate social behavior. If they do not get their<br />

way, they become vindictive, maintaining a grudge for a considerable<br />

amount of time, and take every opportunity to “get even.”<br />

They frequently select and relentlessly attack targets who are relatively<br />

powerless.<br />

Targeting the Vulnerable<br />

Among the most attractive targets for a psychopathic con<br />

man are women who are insecure, lonely, or isolated from friends<br />

and family in a foreign country. In Canada recently, a man posed<br />

as a former Hong Kong police officer and claimed he now was<br />

working with the local police. He scammed wealthy women from<br />

Asian “satellite families,” in which the husband worked in Hong

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