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the end of the lobby and bought a large cup of tea and a doughnut.
Taking a seat with a view of the entrance, she decided to wait.
What to Do?
Having a psychopath in your life can be an emotionally draining,
psychologically debilitating, and sometimes physically harmful experience.
We have received numerous letters and e-mails from individuals
who believe a psychopath has victimized them. Their often
detailed and pleading communications have given us a glimpse into
the impact that psychopathic manipulation and abuse has had on
their lives. In some cases, we have suggested that individuals call the
local police or civil authorities. In many cases, we referred them to
qualified psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, members of the
clergy, or other professionals in their area who are best suited to provide
the help they need.
Look into His Heart—and Look Again
“He is such a caring man. So intelligent. He can always
find the right words to reach your heart. You must
love him.”
—Woman who befriended a
rapist/murderer on death row
“I’ve lied all my life, but I’m not lying now.”
—Defendant in a fraud trial
Over the years we noticed a pattern in the reports from letter
writers and those we interviewed. Much like psychopaths, who
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