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Non-Normative Gender and Sexual Identities in Schools: - Schools Out

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closely relate to. He described some of the devastat<strong>in</strong>g emotional effects of the years of<br />

queerphobic abuse he suffered, but also a desire to overcome this <strong>and</strong> to help others; an<br />

effect which is relatively common amongst LGBT people who have suffered<br />

discrim<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>in</strong> their youth (see Rooney, 2005). Such positive outcomes however,<br />

cannot be seen <strong>in</strong> isolation to the long term negative effects experienced. Silver, for<br />

example, like many other LGBT adults who were bullied at school (see Rivers, 2004),<br />

suffers from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result of, <strong>in</strong> his own words, ‘the years of<br />

shit that I had to put up with’ (Silver, Transcript 2: 6) <strong>and</strong> when he left school at 15 he<br />

was ‘<strong>in</strong> a really messed up state’ (Silver, Transcript 2: 5), had no qualifications <strong>and</strong> was<br />

contemplat<strong>in</strong>g suicide for the third time.<br />

Through the experiences of bully<strong>in</strong>g, the cont<strong>in</strong>ual use of LGBT words <strong>in</strong> a derogatory<br />

way <strong>and</strong> heteronormative cultures permeat<strong>in</strong>g their schools, the young people <strong>in</strong> my<br />

study, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g Silver, were very aware that they were seen as different, <strong>and</strong> <strong>in</strong> Daniel’s<br />

case that his LGBT friends were seen as different. They expected to be bullied <strong>and</strong> had<br />

reconciled themselves to this be<strong>in</strong>g part of the process of ‘becom<strong>in</strong>g’ LGBT. They also<br />

seemed aware that the basis for this bully<strong>in</strong>g was often a lack of underst<strong>and</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>and</strong> felt<br />

more needs to be done <strong>in</strong> schools to make people aware that, as Daniel states, be<strong>in</strong>g gay<br />

is not ‘someth<strong>in</strong>g not normal’ (Transcript 1: 20).<br />

The development, negotiation <strong>and</strong> management of identity dur<strong>in</strong>g your school years is<br />

extremely important for future health <strong>and</strong> <strong>in</strong> the ways highlighted, young LGBT people<br />

f<strong>in</strong>d themselves disadvantaged to non-LGBT people regard<strong>in</strong>g this development. For<br />

example, as Ushihu says, if you do not conform to the heterosexual <strong>and</strong> gender norms

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