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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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In <strong>the</strong> pages that follow I will describe a few practical methods you can use to release<br />

yourself from <strong>the</strong> shackles of this particular addiction … In <strong>the</strong> meantime, it is enough for<br />

you to begin to free yourself, by making your social media less about <strong>the</strong> meaningless<br />

“media”, and more about <strong>the</strong> Caring “social”.<br />

“We shape our tools, and our tools shape us.” ~ Wilson Miner<br />

“Focus on how to BE social, not how to do social.” ~ Jay Baer<br />

“Bring <strong>the</strong> best of your au<strong>the</strong>ntic Self to every opportunity.” ~ Brian Jantsch<br />

“Connection” -- A Way OUT<br />

“Danny did not think cocaine and computers were anything alike. But Jude had seen <strong>the</strong><br />

way people hunched over <strong>the</strong>ir screens, clicking <strong>the</strong> refresh button again and again,<br />

waiting for some crucial if meaningless hit of information, and he thought it was almost<br />

exactly <strong>the</strong> same.” ~ Joe Hill<br />

So, now that an addiction to social media has been identified (and remember, this<br />

includes email), let’s look at a few effective ways to free yourself from its grasp …<br />

TIP #01 … REDUCE YOUR ON-LINE TIME<br />

This one is pretty obvious, actually – simply choose to spend less time on-line; a lot less<br />

time on-line. One of <strong>the</strong> best ways to do so is to schedule your Internet time at <strong>the</strong><br />

beginning of each week, and <strong>the</strong>n stick to your schedule – NO MATTER WHAT. When<br />

you are working on your computer outside of your “on-line time”, close all web browsers<br />

and “smart applications” that might tempt you to “just check in for a second”. Or use an<br />

old-fashioned alarm clock to wake you each morning so your cell phone doesn’t linger<br />

nearby while you are sleeping.<br />

Essentially, if you need more than one hour a day on-line, <strong>the</strong>n you do indeed have a<br />

serious addiction, and could very well stand to earnestly reevaluate your life and how you<br />

are living it.<br />

“By not tweeting, you are tweeting.<br />

By not tweeting, you are sending <strong>the</strong> message<br />

that <strong>the</strong>re are far more important things to be doing<br />

with <strong>the</strong> limited time we all have.” ~ anonymous<br />

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