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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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The CONSEQUENCES of “PRODUCTIVITY”<br />

Even if <strong>the</strong>y do not go to radical extremes, people who overwork still suffer serious<br />

physical and emotional consequences, as well as <strong>the</strong> debilitating social effects of <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

inability to focus on <strong>the</strong> welfare of o<strong>the</strong>rs – <strong>the</strong>ir inability to deeply Care.<br />

*Busyness causes MENTAL INSTABILITY …<br />

The high levels of stress experienced by people who prioritize <strong>the</strong>ir work ahead of most<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r facets of <strong>the</strong>ir lives inevitably leads to <strong>the</strong>m experiencing some degree of “burnout”<br />

(what used to be called “nervous breakdown”) – a state of mental exhaustion<br />

characterized by intense fatigue, moroseness, irritability, negativity and depression. Such<br />

workaholics also tend to be easily angered or agitated, and often suffer from insomnia,<br />

memory black-outs, and radical mood swings.<br />

“Burnout is nature’s way of telling you that you’ve just been going through <strong>the</strong> motions;<br />

that your Soul has temporarily checked out – that you’ve become a zombie; a member of<br />

<strong>the</strong> walking dead; a sleepwalker.” ~ inspired by Sam Keen<br />

*Over-productivity causes UNPRODUCTIVITY …<br />

Ironically, <strong>the</strong> high stress levels that over-workers endure actually makes <strong>the</strong>m less<br />

productive employees. They might indeed get more done in short bursts than most<br />

“normal folks”, and yet over <strong>the</strong> course of an entire workweek, workaholics tend to be<br />

less focused, less efficient and prone to making far more mistakes than <strong>the</strong>ir more<br />

grounded counterparts.<br />

“Doing nothing is better than being busy doing nothing” ~ Lao Tsu<br />

*Workaholism causes DAMAGED RELATIONSHIPS …<br />

Even if workaholics <strong>the</strong>mselves can avoid <strong>the</strong> personal consequences for <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

overworking, <strong>the</strong>ir relationships will always suffer. Sometimes <strong>the</strong>re is intense<br />

resentment felt at home to <strong>the</strong>m placing work ahead of <strong>the</strong> family, <strong>the</strong>ir children often<br />

feel alienated, and <strong>the</strong>ir partnerships often end in emotional separation or actual divorce.<br />

Just as tragic, <strong>the</strong> children of workaholics often ei<strong>the</strong>r follow in <strong>the</strong>ir workaholic parent’s<br />

footsteps and become overbearing workaholics <strong>the</strong>mselves, or <strong>the</strong>y rebel against that<br />

parent and suffer from chronic non-productivity and indolence.<br />

“I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really<br />

mean when you reach <strong>the</strong> end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count<br />

a lot more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community.” ~ Mitch<br />

Albom<br />

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