Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

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HOW to POWER-FULLY FORGIVE Peace-full Way #01: FORGIVENESS LISTENS … Conflict immediately ends when one party chooses to empathically listen to the other. He does so without agreeing with what is being said, and he does so without disagreeing with what is being said. He listens merely to listen – merely to honor the True Self of the one doing the speaking; even if those words are hateful and harsh. She does so without defending herself from criticism and without setting up boundaries to attack. She listens merely to listen – merely to remind the speaker gently-yet-persistently that she is not an enemy at all, but rather a long lost Friend who the other has simply forgotten. When an argument becomes a debate, and a debate then becomes a discussion, and that discussion then becomes a listening, conflict cannot continue to survive. “Conflict cannot survive without your participation.” ~ Wayne Dyer Peace-full Way #02: FORGIVENESS DETACHES from conflict … There is no such thing as a method of conflict that truly “works”. When you “win” an argument, the other does not suddenly agree with you and begin to champion your opinion. Rather, they depart in search of weaker minds who they can similarly defeat. Even criminals who are prosecuted and “punished justly” will never be truly rehabilitated thereby. They will simply wait for the next opportunity to commit their crimes again – and again – and again. And they do so not because “that’s just the way they are”, but rather because they have yet to receive the one thing that is missing in their lives – the one thing that was missing in their youth – the one thing that led them to commit their crimes in the first place. And that one thing was unconditional Love. Since they didn’t receive it in their earlier years, they are looking for it in their later ones. And since they didn’t learn healthy ways of looking for it then, they are looking for it in unhealthy ways now. They are looking for unconditional Forgiveness, and they will continue to commit crimes until such radical Acceptance is given to them. As such, conflict is never a practical solution to any form of perceived wrongdoing. Indeed, conflict is the one choice that actually encourages those ways of pain and dysfunction to continue. Because conflict is the primary problem, choosing to courageously remove yourself from conflict is the primary solution. Conflict requires two parties to survive, so when one party gracefully retreats, conflict itself is forced to retreat as well. So exit all your arguments, … and quit all your debates, … and silence all your criticisms, … and drop all your lawsuits. There are a myriad of truly effective solutions to the challenges presented by your enemies … Conflict is not one of them. “Whenever you are in conflict with another, there is one factor that determines whether your relation ship will be damaged or deepened. That factor is attitude.” ~ inspired by William James 206
Peace-full Way #03: FORGIVENESS CARES … Whether we are mentally condemning the other, emotionally hating them, or verbally attacking them, all of our conflicts are founded in primarily non-active beliefs. And, because actions are by far more powerful than thoughts or emotions or words, the most powerful way to combat conflict is to silently and actively (and often anonymously) extend acts of kindness directly towards our enemies. There is no need to endlessly search your past for the “unmet needs” that are triggering your addiction to conflict. And you don’t have to obtain the help of a judge or a lawyer or a mediator or a therapist or even a friend in order to find Harmony … To rediscover a Peace-full life, you must simply choose to live Peace-fully. It is a profound Truth that no fear-filled being will long “bite the hand that feeds” (remembering that even anger is nothing more than crystallized fear). As such, when you choose to consciously feed you enemies Kindness, they will be forced to either treat you accordingly, or leave you in Peace to seek a victim elsewhere. Please consider this gently … Please emulate this courageously. “Peace is not the absence of conflict, but rather the choice to resolve conflict with peaceful means.” ~ inspired by Ronald Reagan “When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself … In such moments, he does not need punishment; he needs help – He does not need your condemnation; he needs your Kindness.” ~ inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh “We are the Peacemakers we’ve been waiting for.” ~ Jose Arguelles 207
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LICKING the RAZOR’S EDGE Recogniz
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inspired by … & in honor of Todd
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Introduction Over the course of my
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“There are all kinds of addicts
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And yet, if you make sure your ego
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Addiction #01 - Freedom from ALCOHO
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Alcohol -- A Way OUT “I can’t c
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Addiction #02 - Freedom from SMOKIN
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And here is the point that is more
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That means that in only 3 weeks, th
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TIP #10 - TREAT YOURSELF Giving up
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Addiction #03 - Freedom from CAFFEI
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MYTH #05 - Caffeine (specifically c
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*And finally, and by far MOST IMPOR
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Addiction #04 - Freedom from SUGAR
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Sugar -- A Way OUT “Foods high in
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Addiction #05 - Freedom from MEAT
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In addition, even though we have ev
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In addition, these animals are sent
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Effect #05 - Most importantly of al
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*Many known cancer-causing ingredie
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*Also, a study in the Wall Street J
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Addiction #08 - Freedom from SALT
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Addiction #09 - Freedom from GMO’
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TIP #02 … READ your LABELS You mi
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Addiction #10 - Freedom from Glutto
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Maybe you are “walking on eggshel
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Gluttony -- A Way OUT “My doctor
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TIP #07 - REMEMBER THE WHY of your
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Of course, your own level of “hoa
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THE CONSEQUENCES of HOARDING Hoardi
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TIP #02 - PILING IT UP Designate an
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Finally, regardless of how you deal
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Most importantly of all, almost now
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*Casual sex creates a void between
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In everything we do, it is the “w
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TIP #07 - LIMIT YOUR FREQUENCY The
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While the existence of such a dysfu
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THE CONSEQUENCES OF BEING ADDICTED
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*Do you provoke arguments? Do you r
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LOVE ADDICTION: A POWER-FULL SOLUTI
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*According to another study of wome
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While the pages that follow will go
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Start by taking a long and deep loo
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Practical TIP #03 - SEEING THE SELF
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As long as you are attempting to ma
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Practical TIP #06 - The TRUE BEAUTY
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Practical TIP #07 — CHOOSING REVE
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And yet, despite the evidence that
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Comfort -- A Way OUT “It is not t
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Well, my Friends, there is no guara
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And so we log on again … and agai
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In the pages that follow I will des
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*When you feel the urge to log-on
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*Do you analyze, criticize or other
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*TRUTH #03: Vacant TALKING MEANS NO
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The pains of our past are our most
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Addiction #18 - Freedom from TV “
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And yet there are other negative co
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*Watching Television causes a LOSS
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*Do you use your TV as a baby-sitte
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TIP #03: LIMIT YOUR VIEWING … Onl
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Addiction #19 - Freedom from VIDEO
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*VIDEO GAMES are SOCIALLY ADDICTIVE
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RECOGNIZING YOUR OWN GAMING ADDICTI
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Addiction #20 - Freedom from SLOTH
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*We are EMOTIONALLY CONDITIONED to
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The Power-full Alternative: BUILDIN
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TIP #18: BE A “GOOD NEIGHBOR”
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The CONSEQUENCES of “PRODUCTIVITY
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*Do you regularly feel like you nee
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Productivity -- A Way OUT “The qu
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Essentially, when we follow this gu
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Addiction #22 - Freedom from THINKI
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*Do you replay recent conversations
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Avoiding COMMON TRAPS & “Fake Sol
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Please note that this chapter in no
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Page 161 and 162: The CONSEQUENCES of SERIOUSNESS The
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Page 165 and 166: Addiction #25 - Freedom from NEGATI
Page 167 and 168: *Negativity intensifies what psycho
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Page 171 and 172: *TIP #02: REMAIN in the MOMENT …
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Page 177 and 178: *CALLOUSNESS INFLICTS “KARMIC SPL
Page 179 and 180: Tip #02: FORGIVE, FORGIVE, FORGIVE
Page 181 and 182: Addiction #27 - Freedom from ARROGA
Page 183 and 184: *Do you believe that you have a rig
Page 185 and 186: We are arrogant in relation to our
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Page 189 and 190: TIP #02: DEFEND THE DEFENSELESS …
Page 191 and 192: TIP #04: BE KIND to your CRITICS
Page 193 and 194: TIP #06: LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN …
Page 195 and 196: TIP #08: OPEN the MIND = OPEN the H
Page 197 and 198: BENEFIT #01: ENHANCED AWARENESS OF
Page 199 and 200: Addiction #28 - Freedom from CONFLI
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Page 203 and 204: The CONSEQUENCES of our CONFLICT AD
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Page 209 and 210: RECOGNIZING YOUR OWN ADDICTION to I
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Page 233 and 234: Addiction #32 - Freedom from ENVY
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Page 243 and 244: The CONSEQUENCES of REGRET When lef
Page 245 and 246: TIP #01: ANONYMOUSLY ATONE … Mere
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And yet, as with every other addict
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*Do you pry into the affairs of oth
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Fear -- A Way OUT Step 01: RELEASE
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Note here that I am not intending t
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Step 03: FORGIVE (the verb) “Hold
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I realize that to judge another per
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Step 05: PROTEST INJUSTICE “For t
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*Instead of marching on the White H
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Consider: It is our fear that gives
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That being said, this thin fog of f
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Even so, many of you are probably q
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Consider the following oft-forgotte
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*So don’t get angry at your ego f
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Indeed, it is time for us to rememb
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It is important to remember - espec
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FREEDOM from addiction IS INSTANTAN
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Step 02) CONSOLE your Ego … Have
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The more often you do so - the more
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