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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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TIP #02 … “ALTRUIZE” YOUR ON-LINE TIME<br />

Regardless of whe<strong>the</strong>r or not you succeed in limiting your virtual time to less than an<br />

hour per day, it is very important that you choose to make <strong>the</strong> time you do spend on-line<br />

Meaning-full time.<br />

*Instead of posting about what you are having for lunch, post about <strong>the</strong> ways you are<br />

nourishing your community (or <strong>the</strong> ways you have seen o<strong>the</strong>rs do <strong>the</strong> same).<br />

*Instead of commenting with hollow humor, sarcasm or outright rejection, try typing<br />

something Kind (“nice or nothing” is a good motto for any communiqué in your life).<br />

*Instead of debating politics or arguing about religion, choose to be openly respectful of<br />

o<strong>the</strong>rs and openly respectful of <strong>the</strong>ir beliefs (especially if you don’t agree with <strong>the</strong>m).<br />

Make your daily social media use a time to inspire o<strong>the</strong>rs with your deepest True Self,<br />

instead of distracting <strong>the</strong>m with your superficial “small self” — a time to raise o<strong>the</strong>rs up,<br />

instead of bring <strong>the</strong>m down; a time to compliment, instead of condemn; essentially, a<br />

time to remind o<strong>the</strong>rs that social media outlets are tools of transcendence, and not mere<br />

escapes into ego.<br />

“The things that bring o<strong>the</strong>rs true Happiness<br />

are <strong>the</strong> ones that get <strong>the</strong> most real Shares.”<br />

~ inspired by Chris Bogan<br />

TIP #03 … REPLACE your VIRTUAL LIFE with a REAL ONE<br />

Most importantly of all, it is time to let your addiction to social media inspire you to go<br />

forth and Be <strong>the</strong> Change You Wish to See.<br />

*When you feel <strong>the</strong> urge to log-on “just to see what’s going on”, choose instead to turn<br />

off your computer and go find someone who needs a smile.<br />

“In some ways, Facebook levels <strong>the</strong> playing field of friendship stratification. In <strong>the</strong> real<br />

world, you have very close friends and <strong>the</strong>n <strong>the</strong>re are those you just say “Hi” to when<br />

you pass <strong>the</strong>m on <strong>the</strong> street. Of course, <strong>the</strong>re is no reason why we cannot have <strong>the</strong><br />

courage to treat everyone we meet as a close friend.” ~ inspired by Prof. Jason Kaufman<br />

*When you feel <strong>the</strong> urge to log-on to take part in a discussion or o<strong>the</strong>rwise comment on a<br />

post, choose instead to first go out and do an anonymous Kind Deed for your community.<br />

“Actions speak louder than words.” ~ Brian Solls<br />

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