Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)
Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free
Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you,
… to then set your True Self free
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TIP #02 – PILING IT UP<br />
Designate ano<strong>the</strong>r day, maybe a week or two after <strong>the</strong> first, to take your Freedom of Self<br />
to a deeper level. Then, one space at a time (you can divide larger rooms into many<br />
smaller “spaces”), go though all of your possessions and tag each one with one of three<br />
labels – “to trash”, “to donate” or “to keep”. The criteria should be much more discerning<br />
on this day. In fact, be absolutely ruthless with what stays and what has to go.<br />
*Have you used <strong>the</strong> item at least once in <strong>the</strong> last month (or have a clear vision of using it<br />
at least once in <strong>the</strong> upcoming month)?<br />
… If not, it goes – period.<br />
*Does <strong>the</strong> item reflect your personal values – does it make an accurate statement about<br />
who you want to BE as a person?<br />
… If not, it goes – period.<br />
*Does <strong>the</strong> item bring Joy or Peace to anyone o<strong>the</strong>r than yourself?<br />
… If not, it goes as well – period.<br />
As you engage this process, avoid ignoring items that are “on <strong>the</strong> borderline” – If you are<br />
unsure, simply put <strong>the</strong> item in question into an extra box and tape it up when you are<br />
done. Set <strong>the</strong> box in a closet or <strong>the</strong> basement or <strong>the</strong> attic. If you don’t think about any of<br />
<strong>the</strong> items in that box for next three months, open it up and give everything away.<br />
Note: Many times we hold onto possessions because <strong>the</strong>y have some sort of sentimental<br />
value for us. If this is <strong>the</strong> case for any of your possessions, especially larger ones,<br />
remember that people and memories are not found in material things – <strong>the</strong>y are found in<br />
your Heart. Take a digital photo of <strong>the</strong> item and <strong>the</strong>n let it go.<br />
TIP #03 – MINIMALISM SPENDING<br />
(Mid-term Maintenance)<br />
Recent studies of consumption show that people are happier when <strong>the</strong>y spend money on<br />
things <strong>the</strong>y truly need, as opposed to doing so to “accumulate wealth” or “outdo <strong>the</strong><br />
Joneses”. So, for one month – just for 30 days, choose to buy only what you truly need.<br />
TIP #04 – SPENDING ON WHAT MATTERS<br />
(Long-term Maintenance)<br />
Recent studies of consumption also show that people are happier when <strong>the</strong>y spend money<br />
on experiences instead of material objects. So, choose to spend <strong>the</strong> vast majority of your<br />
money not on things that are merely “fun” or “entertaining” (mostly material<br />
possessions), but ra<strong>the</strong>r things that bring Worth and Meaning to your life (mostly<br />
activities and hobbies that involve o<strong>the</strong>r people).<br />
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