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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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*Reason #03: GUILT …<br />

And yet it isn’t only our culture that inspires our hoarding. Guilt is ano<strong>the</strong>r major<br />

contributor to our massive materialism.<br />

Many of us work long hours and <strong>the</strong>refore have relatively little time to spend with our<br />

loved ones. A natural consequence of this lack is <strong>the</strong> buying of presents to somehow<br />

make up for <strong>the</strong> small amount of Quality Time that we invest in each o<strong>the</strong>r. The United<br />

States has only 3.1% of <strong>the</strong> world’s children, and yet over 40% of <strong>the</strong> world’s toys …<br />

quite <strong>the</strong> ominous statistic, really.<br />

In addition, that same guilt often has us holding onto gifts that we don’t even use and that<br />

we don’t even like – as though <strong>the</strong>re is some unwritten code than requires us to keep a<br />

gift forever to somehow “prove our Love” to <strong>the</strong> gift-giver.<br />

*Reason #04: FEAR …<br />

Fear is ano<strong>the</strong>r powerful motivator for our over-accumulating. Americans are especially<br />

susceptible to “doomsday” propaganda and “imminent crisis” angst. As a culture, we are<br />

fascinated by “worst-case scenarios” and almost obsessed with being ready to face <strong>the</strong>m<br />

“just in case”.<br />

Of course, <strong>the</strong>se dangers are almost always illusory, and we end up wasting our time and<br />

our energy and our money (and even a part of our sanity) on accumulating things to<br />

needlessly prepare for <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

*Reason #05: HOARDING IS ADDICTIVE …<br />

We are biologically programmed to believe that surrounding ourselves with lots things<br />

somehow guarantees us security; a greater protection from danger in general, and once<br />

we start doing so, our bodies <strong>the</strong>n become physiologically addicted to <strong>the</strong> hormonal<br />

“high” that we experience every time we buy something new – a “high” that is as fleeting<br />

as it is hollow – a “high” we get whe<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong> thing we buy is actually important or not.<br />

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