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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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TIP #03: ENGAGE MEANING-FULL ACTIVITIES …<br />

According to <strong>the</strong> average workaholic, <strong>the</strong> only way to be satisfied with life is to be<br />

satisfied with one’s job. And according to Malcolm Gladwell, <strong>the</strong> only way to be<br />

satisfied with one’s job is if that job lends a sense of autonomy (where you have some<br />

say in how you organize your day), a sense of complexity (where your daily tasks are<br />

diverse and shift over time), and a sense of reward (where you see a direct benefit for<br />

your hard work).<br />

This all makes perfect sense, of course, and we can strive to find fulfillment in our lives<br />

in this way if we wish. Of course, for most workers in most economies around <strong>the</strong> world,<br />

it is almost impossible to satisfy eve one of <strong>the</strong>se goals with any one job.<br />

Fortunately, <strong>the</strong>re is an alternative; one that is available for every worker on <strong>the</strong> planet in<br />

every moment of <strong>the</strong>ir lives. And all that this alternative requires is for us to consciously<br />

replace living productively with living Meaning-fully …<br />

*Instead of feeling a sense of false-autonomy by doing what you want to do at work, you<br />

can find <strong>the</strong> deep-seated sense of Autonomy that comes to those who choose to Care for<br />

o<strong>the</strong>rs – and this whe<strong>the</strong>r you are on <strong>the</strong> job or not.<br />

*Instead of feeling a sense of false-complexity by engaging a number of different and<br />

“interesting” tasks at work, you can experience <strong>the</strong> deep-seated sense of Complexity that<br />

comes to those who engage different act of Kindness every day – and this whe<strong>the</strong>r you<br />

are on <strong>the</strong> job or not.<br />

*Instead of feeling a sense of false-reward by “getting paid enough” for your work, you<br />

can know <strong>the</strong> deep-seated Reward that comes to those who get <strong>the</strong>ir satisfaction from<br />

Serving <strong>the</strong>ir community – and this whe<strong>the</strong>r you are on <strong>the</strong> job or not.<br />

It is a Beauty-full Life we have all been given, my Friends – but you won’t know it until<br />

you slow down enough to appreciate it; until you start to make your life about o<strong>the</strong>rs’ Joy<br />

instead of your own “productivity”.<br />

“If you’re too busy to help those around you, <strong>the</strong>n you’re too busy.” ~ anonymous<br />

“A man who uses only his hands is a mere laborer. A man who uses both his hands and<br />

his mind is a craftsman. And yet <strong>the</strong> man who uses his hands, his mind and his Heart<br />

becomes an artist.” ~ St. Francis of Assisi<br />

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