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Licking the Razor's Edge (2015)

Recognizing the hidden addictions that bind you, … to then set your True Self free

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Politicians consistently speak about “our enemies”, our churches regularly tell us that we<br />

will be punished for our “sins”, and our TV programmers & move producers are<br />

continually increasing <strong>the</strong> “jolts per minute” with which <strong>the</strong>ir ever-more-violent<br />

programs shock us. As such, our bodies are exposed to an “adrenaline cocktail” far too<br />

regularly, and many of us have become literally hooked on <strong>the</strong> rush it provides.<br />

SOURCE #03: POWER …<br />

As social beings – “herd animals”, if you will, it can be no great surprise to learn that <strong>the</strong><br />

final source for our fracas-fetish is a sociological one. Basically, we not only like to bond<br />

ourselves into groups for enhanced security, we also like to acquire & maintain positions<br />

of influence within our own group — and conflict is one of <strong>the</strong> main methods we use to<br />

do both that acquiring and that maintaining.<br />

*If we don’t feel like members of our “herd” (our friends, our family members, fellow<br />

Christians, fellow Democrats, etc) are listening to us, we often engage in some form of<br />

conflict-based provocation until we feel understood or appreciated …<br />

*If we are involved in any form of competition, we strive to win (and <strong>the</strong>reby be accepted<br />

– if not downright worshiped – by our “herd”) …<br />

*If ei<strong>the</strong>r we (or our values) are rejected or ridiculed, we attack <strong>the</strong> source of <strong>the</strong> same<br />

(lest <strong>the</strong> rest of our “herd” shun us as well) …<br />

*If we witness a member of our “herd” straying into actions or beliefs or opinions that<br />

not “normal” or that are “inappropriate”, we confront him or her (often with rejection or<br />

ridicule) in order to encourage those “strays” to return to <strong>the</strong> fold and “act normal”.<br />

*And, of course, if our own “herd” is attacked by ano<strong>the</strong>r clan (be it a nation, a political<br />

party, a rival sports team, or a clique at school), we tend to mobilize our forces in order to<br />

collectively destroy that enemy.<br />

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