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eating unclean things.” A relief sculpture of one person joyfully eating the feces of another also
decorates a Tantric Buddhist temple in Orissa.
Group Practice
The Tantras are in part manuals for orgiastic practice. Since much of medieval Indian culture
was already orgiastic, orgies were not a Tantric innovation. However, the Tantras took these
popular practices and transformed them into opportunities for rapid spiritual growth. Tantric
feasts (gaṇacakras) in particular are group sacred sex rituals. The Tibetan master Jamgön
Kongtrul calls group sexual yoga the Circle of the Assembly (Gaṇa Maṇḍala), and especially
recommends it. For group sex practice, the Hevajra Tantra provides a ritual in which the male
practitioner stands in the center of a maṇḍala, surrounded by eight consorts: “Into this maṇḍala
enter the eight great blissful consorts who are twelve to sixteen years of age and are adorned with
garlands and jewelry. With intense embraces and kisses the yogi serves these consorts.
Removing all their clothes, kiss their lotuses again and again. By uniting the sexual organs, the
erotic play arises.” The Tibetan master Marpa performed his Hevajra sādhana in this way. If you
are drawn to these practices, you can form your own maṇḍala group, or join one near you.
Concluding Lovemaking
For the conclusion (samāpti) of lovemaking, The Kāma Sūtra advises, “After making love, one’s
behavior should be affectionate. A solid attachment is established through friendly
conversation.” It is a good time for hugging and kissing, with gentle, kind, and humorous words,
and bounteous cuddling. A few bites to eat and sips of alcohol can ground you after the intensity
of practice. Your connection, gratitude, love, and passion increase. The value of your long term
relationship reveals itself to you both, and you cherish the journey you set out together on to
attain inner awakening. It is customary in India to take a bath after lovemaking to cleanse your
body, or you can just bask in the mix of your energies. You may also want to give each other a
short massage. Afterwards you may enjoy a nice meal and then rest, telling lighthearted stories.
Results
“Setting the two organs in equipoise,
the wise one’s happy accomplishment is known as the Great Bliss.”
- Sarva Deva Samāgama Tantra
From your overflowing of love and bliss, inner awakening is attained. Sexual yoga brings the
subtle winds into the central channel, clears the most subtle obscurations of your root ignorance
of self and other, and unites you with the Clear Light. You see reality clearly. You gain radiant
and awe-inspiring beauty, youthful vigor, worldly magical powers and omniscience. You
overflow with wisdom, light and love, and your actions are graceful and delightful. You dwell
eternally in the Great Bliss. The Hevajra Tantra reveals the result of sexual yoga is that “The
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